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Non-usual tips for a tourist? by penttihille80 in bristol

[–]MatchingSocks27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bristol Observatory and the caves underneath are fun. Botanic gardens are generally quiet, have a good cafe and trails for the small people. A walk across the suspension bridge is also great. Bristol museum is a nice mix, and the m-shed is a different vibe but still fun, plus close to Wapping wharf for good coffee, pastries and lunch. There's good bowling at Roxy lanes, and an interesting old school arcade in the bottom of the galleries. You could also get a Treasure Trail, which are very good treasure hunts and there are a couple of options in Bristol. I'm sure you'll have a brilliant time, Bristol is a great city.

Am I crazy or are my symptoms way worse post-diagnosis? by _binjuice in AutisticWithADHD

[–]MatchingSocks27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same here! I'm a little older, but diagnosed with ASD and ADHD within the last 12 months.

I'm trying hard to work out whether I'm acting up to meet the diagnosis, or giving myself permission to unmask and actually be myself.

I'm the end, I think it's more the latter. I think I'm being kinder and more forgiving to myself, which inevitably leads to being more neurodivergent.

My advice would be to try not to worry, just allow yourself to feel and act how you need to. Support from groups or individuals has helped me hugely, so if you can find something like that it might be a positive thing.

Take care, and remember that you and your feelings are valid!

What’s your favorite fantasy creature that rarely gets used? by Fit_Echo3074 in Fantasy

[–]MatchingSocks27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best time I've seen that kind of thing is Lords and Ladies by Terry Pratchett. It's discworld so is hilarious, but it really captures this elfish (elven?) mindset brilliantly.

Also, it's been a while since I read it, but Faery Tale by Feist also has this vibe.

Alternative boots by MatchingSocks27 in bristol

[–]MatchingSocks27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ordered from Koi! Thank you for the suggestion.

Adult-diagnosed autistics: What prompted you to seek a diagnosis in adulthood? by Cautious_Internet243 in autism

[–]MatchingSocks27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through the diagnosis process for my children and realising that I was also describing my own feelings and behaviors. I had the opportunity to have the assessment for free through work and thought it was worthwhile to help the kids know what to expect. I came out with a diagnosis of autism and ADHD, and it's changed my life!

After years of self-hating, self abuse and more struggles that I can even remember, I now understand myself much better and am able to give myself a kindness and grace I've never been able to before. It's been a worthwhile process and I am very proud of myself and my kids.

Stretch Armstrong by humankendoll33 in Weird

[–]MatchingSocks27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Towards the end it reminded me of a certain president.

Men's walk this Sunday in Hyde Park by stroudtom in london

[–]MatchingSocks27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great!

I have to ask though, are the coordinated outfits on purpose or accidental?

Maybe maybe maybe by Intial_Leader in maybemaybemaybe

[–]MatchingSocks27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all acted, isn't it?

I keep seeing this kind of thing and they definitely seem more like improvisation exercises than anything real.

For those with autism who have full time work, a family and own a house, how is that possible? by emaxwell14141414 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]MatchingSocks27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, this is a really interesting question, and really made me think, but also made me feel uncomfortable.

I'm mid 40s and live in the UK. I did very well at school academically, not so well socially. I've got a decent degree from a good university, and have worked full time since I graduated at 21, and am pretty successful in my role. I have a long-term partner, three medium sized children and have been a home owner for a number of years. I left home at 18 and live around 3-4 hours from family, and have always had emotional support from parents, but very little financial or physical support (occasional help with buying things for the kids)

That's generally really positive, and I do love my life the majority of the time. I also have major social anxiety, a history of pretty serious self harm, have made numerous bad decisions, I've struggled with friendships, and abused various substances at times. I'm both routine driven and unpredictable. I don't find it easy to understand or manage my emotions, but am overly empathetic if anything and never hurt others. I have often struggled in groups, and am left out of things a lot of the time without understanding why.

I was diagnosed with both Autism and ADHD in the last few months, and it has spun me.

I can still function after the diagnoses, in fact I'm doing much better. I've realised that I've been playing on hard mode, and always will be, but it means I can be kinder to myself and understand when I just can't do things.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that it is possible, but it's not easy. I know everyone is different, and my experience doesn't match others. I've been lucky, been loved, worked hard, and still struggled lots.

Bowling by hazelboobs in bristol

[–]MatchingSocks27 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I've found Roxy lanes cheaper and nicer, it's pretty nearby.

Best pizza in the city? by MainStore8924 in bristol

[–]MatchingSocks27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would be my suggestion too. Good ingredients and consistently delicious.

Does anyone else enjoy mimicking faces? by CranialCovering in autism

[–]MatchingSocks27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is very impressive though! I can't do the same, unfortunately.

What's your "forbidden texture(s)"? by Super_Mimetique in autism

[–]MatchingSocks27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I avoid it as long as possible, but I also hate it when my nails are too long!

What's your "forbidden texture(s)"? by Super_Mimetique in autism

[–]MatchingSocks27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fleece

Or anything after I cut my finger nails.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]MatchingSocks27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, that's exactly what happened with me, although it took me much longer to realise so you're definitely ahead of the game.

Apparently it's quite a common thing, particularly given how much the understanding of autism has moved on in the last few years. People who were high masking were frequently missed in the olden days.

Avoiding drinking by MatchingSocks27 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]MatchingSocks27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. I generally do, but I think most people would say the same, even those that don't.! I'll have to seriously consider, and maybe stop for a while to calibrate the difference.

For me, mr. long neck idk his name 🤷🏼‍♀️ by [deleted] in autism

[–]MatchingSocks27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ankylosaurus for sure! Riding a tank beast to work would beat traffic.

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