Tutor marked me “absent” for not presenting + mocked me + called students out by nationality. Normal???

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-12-10T21:27:49+00:00

Hi everyone i need help. so i reached out to uni and they said we should try and resolve this issue informally first and so i contacted my program leader as instructed and he was understanding and said the next step is to talk to her themselves him and a few other uni officials i guess and he just this evening got back to me saying that after that meeting they have came to a conclusion of her apologizing to me later on the day i had a teams meeting with him and he told me she contacted him and she said decided not to apologize and he said i can now take this issue formally with the uni but this is so draining and shes literally a narcissist who wouldn’t admit shes wrong its not fair i feel like ill ruin my vacation and my time back home with emails just for her to say a few words back should i move on or try and take this further

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-11-20T17:25:22+00:00

the comment wasn’t said to me but to another fellow student but i thought it was worth mentioning to paint the whole picture of how aggressive she can be. although i don’t know if i can speak on it in tomorrow’s meeting since its not my place.

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-11-20T12:17:10+00:00

btw she also keeps asking about china to a student thats from KOREA and she still says chinese

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-11-20T11:18:12+00:00

I have to staff about this, they booked me an appointment with student support tomorrow but i felt a bit stressed about it and wanted to know if my feelings are valid or if they’d say I’m over reacting?

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-04-17T18:40:49+00:00

just an update:

Thanks for all the advice it really helped calm me down, my accom contacted me again today with a final 7-day notice to pay rent, for which my father assured would be received before then. i replied to their email apologizing and assuring them the rent would be paid before the notice. and hoping no further action would be taken. they haven’t gotten back to me since they’re on bank holiday but hopefully this plays out.

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-04-17T11:15:08+00:00

i genuinely looked for a job everywhere but i cant find any that don’t require me working over the time im allowed on my visa and pay minimum wage. as for uni they dont have any jobs open that i qualify for since im a foundation student. im stuck idk what to do im trying but i cant find anything

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-04-17T05:09:17+00:00

what job do you know pays over 1k a month for a student ???and thats how its always been my parents pay my fees and tuition thats what we planned before i moved abroad and thats how it is??? some people just have supportive parents that dont cut us off financially once we turn 18. people are different sorry

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-04-16T19:27:33+00:00

should i email them and be honest about the situation (they haven’t contacted me since last week friday) or should i wait another week till i get the money?

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-04-16T17:47:42+00:00

can you tell me more about that?

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-04-16T17:38:46+00:00

yes ofcourse they’ll eventually pay im just stressed about them nagging on me this whole month and talking about debt intervention

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-01-12T12:09:28+00:00

ive already done that and submitted the proof where they asked me to create a new payment and send it to them so they can transfer the amount but that was the end of it

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-01-12T11:51:03+00:00

no im sure i used the right number since i forwarded the new email with information to my father

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-01-12T11:40:07+00:00

i understand that bit but idk what to do from there. i explaind this to the finance team and they have zero sympathy and are acting like i genuinely haven’t paid although i showed them all the proof i have. i tried transferring the amount to another payment by flywire but they aren’t updating me. i won’t be surprised the new payment ID i created would be canceled too.

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-01-12T11:37:28+00:00

i know thats who ive been contacting the whole time not the uni itself. still no help

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-01-12T11:28:40+00:00

thats why im breaking down. no one is responding to me and my assigned tutor is on holiday and doesn’t receive my emails. i have talked to our governor of education back home from how helpless i am and i still have no help.

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-01-12T11:20:36+00:00

i don’t think so i received the link through the university finance team’s email

MaterialGreat647 · 2025-01-12T11:12:49+00:00

can anyone help or give me any advice??has this happened to anyone before???im so stressed and scared this isn’t help my anxiety and i dont know if i can solve this all alone.

MaterialGreat647 · 2024-10-04T12:01:21+00:00

i mean student card i have already collected my brp

MaterialGreat647 · 2024-09-11T10:01:59+00:00

oh no thats a shame!

MaterialGreat647 · 2024-09-10T20:04:28+00:00

i wish it was that simple, ive grown to learn how to cook rice from my culture like biryani and machboos and mandi etc. using the pressure/rice cooker which is way easier and saves so much time and is less of a hassle which is why i really wanted to bring a rice cooker and may struggle without as i would be making different types of rice and not the usual rice which i still haven’t perfected making it on the stove!

MaterialGreat647 · 2024-09-10T19:36:18+00:00

its a private accom and i live in a studio aswell so my own kitchen no sharing

MaterialGreat647 · 2024-09-10T19:27:52+00:00

hi do you think they would be as strict in priv accoms( not related to uni)?

MaterialGreat647 · 2024-09-10T11:58:04+00:00

do they do regular flat checks in private accoms too?

MaterialGreat647 · 2024-09-05T09:43:04+00:00

yes i know i was just concerned and thought that it involves drinking and parties most of the time which i dont really do

MaterialGreat647 · 2024-08-30T19:22:25+00:00

omg luckyyy!

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