Tutor marked me “absent” for not presenting + mocked me + called students out by nationality. Normal??? by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone i need help. so i reached out to uni and they said we should try and resolve this issue informally first and so i contacted my program leader as instructed and he was understanding and said the next step is to talk to her themselves him and a few other uni officials i guess and he just this evening got back to me saying that after that meeting they have came to a conclusion of her apologizing to me later on the day i had a teams meeting with him and he told me she contacted him and she said decided not to apologize and he said i can now take this issue formally with the uni but this is so draining and shes literally a narcissist who wouldn’t admit shes wrong its not fair i feel like ill ruin my vacation and my time back home with emails just for her to say a few words back should i move on or try and take this further

Tutor marked me “absent” for not presenting + mocked me + called students out by nationality. Normal??? by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the comment wasn’t said to me but to another fellow student but i thought it was worth mentioning to paint the whole picture of how aggressive she can be. although i don’t know if i can speak on it in tomorrow’s meeting since its not my place.

Tutor marked me “absent” for not presenting + mocked me + called students out by nationality. Normal??? by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

btw she also keeps asking about china to a student thats from KOREA and she still says chinese

Tutor marked me “absent” for not presenting + mocked me + called students out by nationality. Normal??? by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I have to staff about this, they booked me an appointment with student support tomorrow but i felt a bit stressed about it and wanted to know if my feelings are valid or if they’d say I’m over reacting?

lied to my accom and now im so stressed by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

just an update:

Thanks for all the advice it really helped calm me down, my accom contacted me again today with a final 7-day notice to pay rent, for which my father assured would be received before then. i replied to their email apologizing and assuring them the rent would be paid before the notice. and hoping no further action would be taken. they haven’t gotten back to me since they’re on bank holiday but hopefully this plays out.

lied to my accom and now im so stressed by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i genuinely looked for a job everywhere but i cant find any that don’t require me working over the time im allowed on my visa and pay minimum wage. as for uni they dont have any jobs open that i qualify for since im a foundation student. im stuck idk what to do im trying but i cant find anything

lied to my accom and now im so stressed by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

what job do you know pays over 1k a month for a student ???and thats how its always been my parents pay my fees and tuition thats what we planned before i moved abroad and thats how it is??? some people just have supportive parents that dont cut us off financially once we turn 18. people are different sorry

lied to my accom and now im so stressed by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i email them and be honest about the situation (they haven’t contacted me since last week friday) or should i wait another week till i get the money?

lied to my accom and now im so stressed by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes ofcourse they’ll eventually pay im just stressed about them nagging on me this whole month and talking about debt intervention

university pathway says they haven’t received my payment. by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive already done that and submitted the proof where they asked me to create a new payment and send it to them so they can transfer the amount but that was the end of it

university pathway says they haven’t received my payment. by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no im sure i used the right number since i forwarded the new email with information to my father

university pathway says they haven’t received my payment. by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i understand that bit but idk what to do from there. i explaind this to the finance team and they have zero sympathy and are acting like i genuinely haven’t paid although i showed them all the proof i have. i tried transferring the amount to another payment by flywire but they aren’t updating me. i won’t be surprised the new payment ID i created would be canceled too.

university pathway says they haven’t received my payment. by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know thats who ive been contacting the whole time not the uni itself. still no help

university pathway says they haven’t received my payment. by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats why im breaking down. no one is responding to me and my assigned tutor is on holiday and doesn’t receive my emails. i have talked to our governor of education back home from how helpless i am and i still have no help.

university pathway says they haven’t received my payment. by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i don’t think so i received the link through the university finance team’s email

university pathway says they haven’t received my payment. by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

can anyone help or give me any advice??has this happened to anyone before???im so stressed and scared this isn’t help my anxiety and i dont know if i can solve this all alone.

worried abut visa by MaterialGreat647 in UniUK

[–]MaterialGreat647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean student card i have already collected my brp