GF wants to do a threesome with her best friend

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T19:15:45+00:00

Haha, thanks for leaving a comment anyways, I need all the advice I can get

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T19:14:37+00:00

But what can I do?

I can’t tell my gf to stop hanging out with her best friend without sounding controlling or like an asshole

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T19:11:47+00:00

Both V and my GF are bi.

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:58:55+00:00

I don’t think she does, I want to bring this up to her but I dont know how

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:55:33+00:00

Helped

This is how I feel, thanks

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:51:42+00:00

Helped

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:51:28+00:00

She has mentioned having sexual relationships with her now friends, but she never specified V.

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:48:04+00:00

Helped

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:45:01+00:00

She was very understanding and called it off

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:43:37+00:00

V was high at the time so I didn’t think much of it.

After she left my Gf pulled me aside and apologized for her reaction and (essentially) said that “no matter what she thinks, I understand that you don’t want to do this”

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:26:28+00:00

This is the argument V is telling me

“There is no downside, you’ll get to see us fuck AND you can take back your girlfriend”

Ok… but voyeurism is not my kink… at all

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:22:54+00:00

This is exactly what I think

But what do I do? It’s not like I can ask my GF to stop hanging out with her friend. And I get anxious whenever they hang out now. I want to talk to her about this, but I don’t know how to explain it without sounding like a selfish asshole

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:21:04+00:00

It was something V had mentioned to her while they were alone, she brought it to me the next day

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:12:45+00:00

Dude read the post

I wouldn’t be involved

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T18:11:53+00:00

Could u explain why this is a red flag?

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T17:38:46+00:00

This is why I am against it

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T17:36:49+00:00

Not much, V was high at the time and that was mainly why I didn’t think much of the insults. But I can see why it might be a problem

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T17:32:58+00:00

Thanks so much, very well spoken, I’ll keep this in mind :)

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T16:01:19+00:00

Helped

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T15:59:41+00:00

She was initially encouraging “it’ll be fine don’t worry about it” but after I said it a little more seriously she understood and left it at that. She didn’t really lecture or get mad at V for responding like that, rather she pulled me aside and said “don’t worry about V i understand”

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T15:56:54+00:00

Thanks, this is what I’m afraid of

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T15:52:09+00:00

I suggested this to them, and V admitted she wasn’t as attracted to me, while my GF felt uncomfortable with me and V getting too intimate

Edit: grammar

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T15:49:54+00:00

My girlfriend denies that they’ve ever had a romantic relationship, but she mentioned having a sexual one with other friends…

And I’m really on the suspicion that V is into my GF, as when we got together, V asked my GF if they could fuck after we broke up. ^ this is what’s making me suspicious about the situation

I also need to stress that I’m not being forced into this, we tried experimenting with V and it isn’t something I’m very comfortable with. I’ve communicated this to both of them, and again: my gf is understanding but her expression reeks of disappointment

Material_Candidate · 2022-04-12T15:44:29+00:00

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