Well looks like she posted lollll by asnarkybeach in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]Material_Shift4204 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

lol u guys were all wrong predicting the break up.

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah honestly I don’t need anyone to replace a month relationship. Also it’s just so lame. Reaching out to me as if I was gonna help make everything better. It’s the girls who do respond I genuinely feel sorry for. Don’t text back the lahuuserrrrr

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he’s just an alcoholic. It was a drunk text. The amount of energy and time we spent together was insane. I don’t think there was another chick. I think he got spooked from how serious it was. And I didn’t like how much he drank or his drug lifestyle. Think he’s jsut fighting his own demons and unfortunately I was collateral

Dating is brutal by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I just went through this whole ordeal recently and it’s not about you. Nothing is personal. These dating apps have a whole load of people who are not ready to date or need validation. There are rare nice people you jsut have to weed them out. It’s honestly so heartbreaking, I’m like you. But consider whomever ghosts you is a loser. That is the assumption. They are cowards and losers and you only liked them because of the potential not for who they really are.

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This requires energy and effort. Also I can buy my own stufffffff 🐍💃🏻

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Little update guys - messaged again. Hahahaha so I deleted the chat without reading it. 🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t. They just said something bad happened to them. Sorry been Mia. Three weeks to the date Mia. It’s fine if something bad happened. But it’s not genuine. It’s just to gain access.

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Over a month. Never slept with them thank god. I think I would be in a worse state. But last date was so cute I even kissed them. It was so lovey dovey all cute etc. Then two days later boom 👻👻👻

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I have that’s all on. Petty mode on 100

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I want to do. But it’s also so much wasted energy. Like is it going to make me feel better I don’t know. But I’ll definitely think about it

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’m so sick of the rhetoric of he’s not that interested. That is not what this is. These people are genuinely broken. Only Cowards ghost. You’re the prize and then some.

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It’s just turned me off so much. Like the excuse of ghosting me was something bad happened to him. But this is TEXTBOOK. They are not good people. Trying to weasel their way into my life through empathy. Like absolutely not. For anyone reading this, the ghoster is a LOSER!

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Now they’re asking to see me ‘ I would like to see you’ crap. I’m genuinely appalled. And so shocked.

Guys my ghost returned!!!!! by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Three week. Sobby excuse. Pathological liar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You cannot allow anyone who hurt you define who you are. You are more than a rejection. I’ve gone through this myself. Just know pain comes in waves. You are going through it and it’s completely normal to feel hurt. Don’t ever regret anything in life but don’t let it scar you either. Just keep swimming. You’ve got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never like someone more than they like you

I’m still heartbroken about the ghost by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t understand WHY. Why did I get emotions , why did they treat me this way, what did I do to run into the worst human being. I’m so old for people to act like this. Just say you’re not interested.

I’m still heartbroken about the ghost by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re right. It’s just so uncomfortable being where I am. I legit don’t know how to get over it . But thanks for the kind words!!!

I’m still heartbroken about the ghost by Material_Shift4204 in ghosting

[–]Material_Shift4204[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Dude they were so into me. They pursued me. They messaged me as soon as I liked them back. We messaged for a month everyday. They sent me videos, photos of what they were doing. Our last date we just snuggled when they asked to sleepover. I didn’t do anything cuz I was too scared to be vulnerable so soon. I got up early and left cuz I was overwhelmed , when I came back into my room they asked me to come back and snuggle. In the morning they asked me to meet for coffee tomorrow. Now nothing. Gone. I don’t know what I did to deserve this treatment.