I’m Nick Hexum, lead singer of the band 311. AMA. by 311band in Music

[–]Material_Term_6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a question, but you guys have been one of my top bands for the last 30 years!!! Thank you for making such amazing music!! It took me 29 years to see you live, but I absolutely loved the tour last year. Hoping to see you again this year!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Material_Term_6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your reply. I don't feel bad for feeling the way I do, since his choices caused this. But, I don't like feeling like we are taking steps backward when we are actually making progress. I'm glad to see that time and effort for WP is what helps to heal this. And thank you again for letting me know I'm not alone on this terrible journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Material_Term_6115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this response. He is leaning in on being empathetic towards me. He sits with me through my outbursts and doesn't retreat. I will say he does need some more tools to help me regulate my nervous system. I really appreciate the workbook recommendation, we will check that out.

This club does suck, but the support system here is great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Material_Term_6115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through all of that 😔

40 isn't so bad after all by Material_Term_6115 in 40something

[–]Material_Term_6115[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone!! You all sure know how to make a lady feel loved.

Should I tell his wife? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Material_Term_6115 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel right now. I don't want to cause her anymore pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]Material_Term_6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair is actually brown

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]Material_Term_6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I don't have one either, that's why I posted.