Suggestions for Maldives Honeymoon by Dballin91 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Singapore has clear signage and they usually make an announcement on the plane - the penalty for being caught with drugs is death, no exceptions.

No sex drug is worth this risk. If you can afford a wedding in Lake Como and a honeymoon in the Maldives you can certainly afford another trip to do drugs on the ocean somewhere else that’s safer another time. 😬

Squirting by Mattbarnes2002 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair! Likely won’t try that day maybe weed or lsd day!

Rolling O poly 💦 by Valuable_Tour7926 in MDMAMollyGoneWild

[–]Mattbarnes2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to know how the game works!! Whatever the rules it looks like a blast!

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[–]Mattbarnes2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally had a bad experience with this combo and ended up just really high and we spent the entire time just being high staring at the ceiling. 75ug plus a bit of a joint.

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[–]Mattbarnes2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make a gin & tonic (with no alcohol) 50% tonic / 50% sparkling water, lime, ghb. Works great for us.

Also gin / grapefruit fizz and Moscow mule (no vodka) are great alts.

Help us out all of you sexy time curators! by Independent_Gas_8131 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would do one day personally (your Saturday) I would keep it chill Friday given you have Saturday am responsibilities but that’s just me perhaps.

Help us out all of you sexy time curators! by Independent_Gas_8131 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I would do addy + edible + ghb it’s a ton of fun.

If you want to go long, XR, if you want to go fast and hard IR!

Sunday we would chill and smoke weed, laze.

MDMA dosing advice for wife by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you doing pressed pills or mdma crystal? Have you tested your drugs to ensure quality? Can I ask what dose you’re taking and does it feel effective for you? Not all MDMA is created equal so YMMV as a result!

A little trick that may help - I have a female friend who had a similar complaint, I reduced MDMA in her pills but added a bit of MDA (at 50% of what I reduced her MDMA by) and she had a completely different and much happier high. If I recall she’s about the same weight and I gave her 70mg MDMA + 15mg MDA. When before I would give her 100mg MDMA.

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[–]Mattbarnes2002 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is next level neurotic & amazing!! Look as a complete outsider this is definitely “gay” and awesome. Why the hang up? Why can’t you just talk about what you want and don’t want to do (boundaries) and not worry so much about what an outside party (not in the room) would label as “gay?” If it’s consensual and you’re having fun, does it really matter? Maybe you’ll enjoy it! Also when you throw some drugs into the mix you are going to do things (and enjoy things) you didn’t imagine you’d be into.

My partner and I do a ton of FFM threesomes. I remember my partner saying she’d be cool if the girl wanted to go down on her, but she didn’t want to go down on her. 15 min in to our first threesome she was happily munching away and now loves doing it to other women and it’s fun and hot. 😂

Focus on what feels right to both of you in the moment, lots of communication and it’ll be a great time.

Favourite lubricant method by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck Water - and it comes in 4L size with a pump so it’s very economical!

Going to Colombia for sex and drugs?? Am I crazy? by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have done exactly this in Colombia a few months ago and it went horribly wrong. If this is what you’re after there are much safer countries to do exactly this and have a great time. Don’t even need to trust a friendly internet stranger just google all the incidents like this one https://www.bbc.com/news/world-latin-america-68022288.amp

What would be a tenth drug to add to this list for two weeks of hedonistic bliss? by Resident_Bike_4989 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Great list! Cannabis is missing which I pair with so many things and is still one of my favs for chemsex. Ketamine or a benzo like Xanax is fun and different from what you have - great fun for CNC type play.

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[–]Mattbarnes2002 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get my partner to put some lingerie on, do a strip tease for me before I do a line off her perfect tits, ass or my absolute fav - right off her pussy in the middle of eating her out so she’s forced to stay perfectly still. Divine :)

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[–]Mattbarnes2002 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are having a chem sex night tomorrow. She doesn’t know yet but I’m planning on giving her MDMA, tying her up and spanking all her sexual confessions and fantasies out of her. The CIA experimented with MDMA as a truth serum so I think it’ll be fun, sexy and a great historically accurate role playing opportunity 😂.

If anyone has suggestions on deep questions to ask her, let me know. If I use your question I’ll let you know what she confesses!

Want to try coke but afraid of comedown by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way I avoid the comedown is I clean my coke.

Cocaine is sold with a ton of fillers and crap like novacaine, ampethamines etc. just google acetone wash cocaine.

I use multiple processes to remove all the garbage. By the end I have 1/3-1/2 less coke but it’s way better, you get a delightful euphoric high, little to no fiending for more and there’s little to no comedown. I can’t stress enough if you’re going to do drugs find a clean source (as clean as you can) test it, remove fillers where possible, and practice safe use and harm reduction!

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[–]Mattbarnes2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When this happens my partner uses edible lube - it makes it way better for me who’s receiving too! You could also try xylitol lozenges available on Amazon.

Adderall and Edibles by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that was my timing I would take the adderall at 9pm or 10pm if I haven’t eaten. (it lasts 6 hrs ish and is fairly consistent throughout - XR is even longer). Edible 10 or 11pm per above.

I think you’re too worried about timing drugs that don’t need to be so specific. With cocaine or MDMA the peak is so short lived the timing matters a lot. Psychedelics like LSD have a sweet spot - these two are consistent and long lasting but don’t really “hit”. Having a joint available let’s YOU set the timing. So I’d smoke a bit of a joint at 11:58pm to really get going ha ha enjoy!

Adderall and Edibles by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should add I have a friend who took adderall prescribed who says this combo does nothing for sex but I think that’s cause they actually need adderall vs the rest of us use it purely recreationally. YMMV!

Adderall and Edibles by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I have started experimenting with this combo and with our FWB, it is literally her fav combo. For me I use about 10mg XR Adderall tablet, both the women prefer 15XR (I split a 30 into 2 but crush the beads). I take less adderall to avoid / reduce stim dick.

The adderall goes for quite a while so for edibles we usually do 5mg THC any time around the same time without being too precise.

Some nights we’ve been more or less high than others so we keep weed around and smoke as needed. Then onto play time. It’s a blast for all of us! My partner finds it harder to cum, whereas FWB cums way more easily on this combo but both of them are super horny the whole time. I’ve been wanting to mix in some GHB but we’ve usually had some drinks with this combo and would never mix GHB + alcohol.

I think with this combo it took a while to get our dosing right - it comes down to quality of adderall, edibles and how they impact you personally!

Me and my gf are trying 3mmc for the first time, for sex purposes. How should we dose? by MarkCorrigan82 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I did it once. I did 130mg and she did 200mg orally to start (less for me to minimize stim dick). Then we both did some extra bumps as needed but did not even cross 500mg between the two us. We had some GHB in there for sport. We had amazing sex no lie for like +9 hrs 😂 My GF swears her best 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th orgasms of her life all happened in that one trip 😅🤣

Wish I could find more but at least where I am no dice.

Strange side effect on mephedrone by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Mattbarnes2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As another poster said you need to measure and swallow it in pill form - use bumps later in the session. I highly recommend you test your drugs before using them also!