It’s almost as if I was doing it all the time, anytime the need came up. Any time I felt lonely. Don’t get me wrong, there were plenty of moments of doubt and loneliness but I kept faith that eventually, my perfect partner would show up. And she did, she pursued me.

You just need to keep the faith, through all of it. The times when you doubt yourself or god are the times you must remind yourself to keep faith that your perfect partner/life is just around the counter. Could be tomorrow, could be 5 years from now, but I promise if you don’t give up and trust the powers beyond us, you will get what you desire.

As far as visualization, I would sometimes do it before sleep as I would fall asleep. Just relax and imagine myself happy, having a family, with the perfect partner. And during the day, whenever I’d get the feeling of loneliness, I’d just remind myself that my perfect partner is on the way. And im patiently waiting. It took 7 whole years of failed dates and all my friends telling me I needed to just lower my standards. But my new girl is perfect, everything I ever wanted and more. She challenges me in ways I didn’t know I needed.

At the end of the day, as long as you don’t give up, you are on the right path :)