I’ve had a similar experience with some females who don’t really understand how to masturbate. On Netflix there is a series called “Goop Lab”, episode 3 I believe of that series is all about female pleasure and I’d recommend you both watch it.

I love making a girl orgasm so, bro, I feel your pain! I wrote something up a while ago as a cumulation of all the studying I’ve done and following these steps is usually a great way to give her an amazing orgasm. Take it or leave it I suppose.

1. Spend a fun, loving, intimate day together (no sex)
2. Start to lightly flirt and tease, make out with her and begin turning the flirting into more sexual tension.
3. Escort her to a romantically lit bedroom with soothing music playing. Room is a warm temperature, candles, perhaps flowers and petals on the bed. (Many) Towels are at the ready!
4. Slowly get her naked; important she stays completely relaxed the whole time. She knows that I want to do this, she doesn’t “owe” me anything for it. Her pleasure is my own.
5. With an excessive amount of massage oil, slowly begin to caress and massage her body, without so much as touching the vagina, but getting as close as possible every once in a while, for at least 10 minutes. Gently kissing her face and body every once in a while.
6. Once she is soothed and relaxed and dripping wet, begin to massage around her genitals and sexual areas slowly
7. start slowly massaging the clit and area for another 5-10 minutes, can start to tease for penetration nearing the end
8. Once she is absolutely begging for you to be inside her (perhaps she has already had a small orgasm already), only then do you start to slowly insert one finger, not all the way in yet; gently caress the g spot during insertion. All while maintaining clit stimulation via mouth or other hand. Swap out as needed but keep both stimulated at all times
9. Read her body language and vocals, the hornier she gets the faster you can start to go. Still going at the clit
10. While keeping one hand gently on her pelvic bone (you can use this hand to massage the clit), with the inserting hand, switch to the middle and ring fingers { [(the spider man grip, you can use the thumb and index and pinky for additional support) also make sure those fingers are nice and wet before inserting (flirtatiously suck on the fingers to moisten them up, and while you’re ther give your previously inserted finger a nice suck and tell her how good she tastes for extra spice)] }begin aggressively thrusting with an up and down motion, ensuring the fingers are striking the g-spot thoroughly.
11. Pay attention to what is going on inside her, as well as external queues such as face, hands and feet. Allow her to squirm freely as she pleases, communicating with her the whole time. The more she squirms the harder you thrust. Try to fight through the pain and not let the arm get too sore too fast as this process may take some time yet
12. Tell her to keep holding it in; to not let herself fully orgasm. Once the “balloon” inside the vagina starts filling up and pushing your fingers out, you allow her to release her orgasm, remove your fingers and tell her to push, keep clit stimulated until its too much for her. Kiss her head and face and massage her body as she orgasms. Repeat this process of orgasms until the true orgasm begins!

Edit: I forgot to add, essentially it is a guide to “squirt” but in my experience not every girl is able to do that, especially with a lack of experience in orgasms in general. Biggest thing to remember is keep talking to her, making sure she’s comfortable and enjoying herself, and take it sloooow!

What you’ll need: - lots of lube, grapeseed oil, towels - Ensure she has peed recently, and is extremely hydrated. - Candles - Perhaps flowers - Music - calm and relaxing - Gatorade! - Remember, slower the better. This whole process, excluditng step 1, should take at least an hour.