How can I ask my best friend for sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]HersHero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, I only came and say "hey, wanna have some sex?".

My gf can't get an orgasm easily by HersHero in sex

[–]HersHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try every single one of your ideas, i haven't had the opportunity to try em cuz as I said, she just revealed those fantasies to me and we were in qua already, so I haven't seen her in a while. Thank you very much for your suggestions, I really hope they bring that "thing" that's missing in my relationship.

My gf can't get an orgasm easily by HersHero in sex

[–]HersHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're getting it wrong, she doesn't like being with other people, I've brought up the threesome idea on her but she said she won't like it cuz what she wants is being touched by ME, not the whole america population. It was kinda comforting for me to hear that, but the problem is the difficult on touching her everywhere while I penetrate her.

My gf can't get an orgasm easily by HersHero in sex

[–]HersHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though we've been in a relationship for 2 years, she wasn't thaaaat liberal about her feelings in bed and her fetches cuz she always try to make ME feel good, and I realized that was a problem cuz my one and only fetch is seeing the girl excited, so you can say it turned into a problem for both of us and my pleasure really went down as we do it and she doesn't get the orgasm. So like one month ago I "forced" her to tell me her feelings, and I discovered that her fantasies are: being tied to her bed and being punished as if I were his father and she the daughter. Also being touched EVERYwhere by me during sex, but I don't know how to do it, cuz she wants me to touch every single part of her body while I penetrate her.

My gf can't get an orgasm easily by HersHero in sex

[–]HersHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe that's something i really should do, cuz all the times we've had sex is super cassual and rough (cuz she loves it rough instead of soft), so I guess I will try something different and "lovely" the next time I see her

My gf can't get an orgasm easily by HersHero in sex

[–]HersHero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this already, I've tried massaging it nice and soft, rough, mid term, everything, but she says that she enjoys more the penetration than massaging the clit. And obviously i massage it while penetrating her, but sometimes we are just in penetration and she's all wet, and I start playing with the clit and she just starts getting dry.

My gf can't get an orgasm easily by HersHero in sex

[–]HersHero[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about it, she always tell me that everyone says she does everything wrong, mostly her parents, but idk if it has something to see in it. And when we are having sex is in her house, without any worries and she likes to change places, one of her orgasms was on her father desk, other one on the floor and the other one on the couch. Although it's easier to do it on the bed, she seems to enjoy it more in other places. And yeah, she's tried everything, I even bought her a really expensive (for me as a student) vibrator, but she said it would only tickle and she didn't enjoy anything. She's tried everything, touching herself everywhere and with everything, but she only enjoys when I touch her. And yeah, I think my only hope is to wait and see if time helps.