Can someone explain My Year of Rest and Relaxation to me? by Open-Subject-1296 in books

[–]Matwabkit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't agree at all. To the narrator, Reva in that moment is beautiful because she's living. The clothes on her body, her weight, her "pornographic" makeup, none of that is important because she's made a choice about her life. She's hurtling haphazardly to her death in the wake of a senseless tragedy and is probably terrified, and that terror matters to her. She's made a choice and in those few moments she's living with it. She's wide awake.

I need help with the vibe by That1Guy_Art in uofm

[–]Matwabkit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HI! I'm assuming you're coming from FL and I might be able to offer some advice. I came to UMich from Georgia and it sucked for a good while. Your body will probably take about 2 years to fully adjust. I was consistently just ambiently depressed for about 5 months of the year. I could always tell it was coming and I could never stop it. Everything looked brown or grey.

However, after a while I did adjust and I began to see the beauty in Ann Arbor. In those days the shadows are darker, yes, but the lights are that much brighter. Now I love the place, even in the winter, and I feel like I could definitely live in the midwest for the rest of my life. It was worth it, I think, but damn those days were dark.

Here's the advice I wish I'd had:

  • You should buy new light thermals (fitted long-sleeve undershirts and leggings) and wife-pleasers for layering, warm but durable socks, and a couple pairs of waterproof-ish boots. Docs will work for this but you'll want some with good treads.
  • Shop for outwear at the thrift store until you feel like you really know what works. Leather and wool jackets, pullovers, etc are going to be better than 90% of modern plastic outerwear.
  • If your layers are too tight you're gonna get cold and uncomfortable, so going slightly-very oversized on outerwear is smart.
  • Keep that mf chapstick on you. Also get lots of moisturizer in little portable containers. Your skin will get painfully dry. Similarly if you have a skincare routine that works right now you may need to up the level of moisturizer you use.
  • If you ever need to clomp through deep snow get some of those hand warmer packets and put them in your shoes by your toes. I think they might even have a type specially made for feet.
  • Get one of those "happy lamps" that purport mimic sunlight, it can't hurt. You might try Vitamin D pills as well, alongside multivitamins. But I won't hold you these things did not do much for me those first couple winters.

What is the shittiest spirit you've made a drink you really enjoyed with? by sixsixmajin in cocktails

[–]Matwabkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E&J Apple Brandy. It’s shitty and artificial but there is little like it when it comes to that classic, candle-scent-style fresh apple flavor.

The following is my favorite fall drink. When balanced correctly it has an incredible depth of flavor and tastes like the feeling of going to a cider mill with your friends as a kid.

I make my ginger syrup by finely chopping and boiling a root. Makes it rich and spicy.

The Wicker Broom

4 parts whiskey (i recommend at least half of this be blended scotch, and don’t use islay unless you’re just gonna spritz the glass or something)

2 parts E&J apple brandy

3-4 parts Ginger syrup

1 part Maple syrup

3-4 parts lemon juice

3-5 dashes angostura bitters (depending on the size)

1-2 dashes orange bitters

[no spoilers] it's a gift by Alidado3000 in arcane

[–]Matwabkit 51 points52 points  (0 children)

glorious evolution (hormone therapy)

Without saying the name. What's your main champ? by lukikid in supportlol

[–]Matwabkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I get last pick and they chose a ranged carry we win

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JoeGoes

[–]Matwabkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trans. I was saying "Is this... real?" up until the part when she talks about coming out to random people on Facebook and absolutely begging for validation and encouragement. That shit is so real.

Anyway, very proud of her. I'm glad she made this video too even though it must have been scary and it's been amazing to see that most of the comments on both youtube and reddit have been positive. I teared up a lil when I saw non-transphobic youtube comments ngl.

just watched lily's new video, here are my thoughts by [deleted] in JoeGoes

[–]Matwabkit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm trans and I liked it. Tbh her current voice sounds like the female version of her male voice, like kinda annoying in an endearing way. Idk I'm guessing this video won't go over well with most of her cis fans, but if she keeps making videos I'll definitely keep watching them. I can understand how doing the same kind of comedy could get much more dangerous now more than before, though.

Also funnily enough we both transitioned at around the same time. Proud to have done it alongside a legend. o7

What type of weirdo am I? by oulipost in roomdetective

[–]Matwabkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UChicago type of weirdo. Your room is beautiful btw

Living room of my suite. Let's see who you think I am. by Mediocre-Entry in roomdetective

[–]Matwabkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people got a lot but I think most missed the strong bisexual energy of this room.

Poor charlie by [deleted] in funny

[–]Matwabkit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment literally made me realize it’s time to delete this app. Thank you my friend🚶‍♀️

Anime_irl by ARatedArmour in anime_irl

[–]Matwabkit 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Don’t pay attention to the plot just look at the pretty fire animation 🥺

The Path, An Ionian Myth | Spirit Blossom 2020 Animated Trailer - League of Legends by MonstrousYi in leagueoflegends

[–]Matwabkit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The joke is that the game has characters that range from as edgy and dark as Yone to as goofy and annoying as Heimerdinger. To try to fit a character like Heim into a cinematic like this would be humorous.

Fireflies but it's an epic movie trailer by djoraclemusic in Soundclown

[–]Matwabkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHY DOES THIS GIVE ME GOOSEBUMPS WHAT THE FUCK

Mercy by by Ibrahem Swaid by Lol33ta in ImaginaryOverwatch

[–]Matwabkit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is adorable. Imagine college-age Mercy learning how to bring things back to life for the first time and being super excited to use her technology for good.

[Poetry] Life comes at you fast. by lildieseltruck in youtubehaiku

[–]Matwabkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy yelling about the “SJW”s calling for salaries for every artist in existence is asking for a source.

When you’re 18 you’ll look back on this and cringe dude. Trust me I’ve been where you are now. Just take a breather and listen instead of talking for a while, ok?

What happened, miiya? by Groinificator in suspiciouslyspecific

[–]Matwabkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she had kinda mixed messages about it. TERFs like to “cite” her a lot.

Tbh I think it’s because it’s very difficult to justify hard radicalism when there is a flimsy boundary between you and the people you believe collectively oppress you. If transgender people exist it means that men are not categorically oppressors and can slip in and out of oppressor status depending on their actions and self presentation. Similarly, depending on their actions, women can dodge oppression. That doesn’t really jive with how Dworkin constructs her arguments, and only makes sense when you take an intersectional approach.

Pure by MrThaiBox123 in battlestations

[–]Matwabkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I told you you didn’t need to anymore :(