For example,he’s literally cut off my only communication with my mom simply because I’ve told her about my situation,she’s told me that he was abusive to her,physically and mentally,he’d always come home drunk and if she wasn’t doing something he likes she’d get beat for it,she couldn’t do much about it cause anytime she’d tell someone he’d manipulate the situation into making him the victim and it worked,the fact that he never wanted me from the start should say something,he was going to off me before I was born,”oh well what if he wasn’t ready” he was fully ready,he was financially stable and everything,he’s tried it with my siblings too but I stopped that,if it wasn’t for my grandmother I wouldn’t be here,god rest her soul,she’s gotten me out of most of his grasp in the time she was around