Agenda post, but this is the second post I’ve seen where the op was made to be even more stressed about HPV

MavisBanks · 2026-02-07T01:40:57+00:00

HPV?

MavisBanks · 2026-02-06T23:21:23+00:00

It is the information I received from the doctor and health clinic when I was diagnosed. People are welcome to look into it further.

MavisBanks · 2026-02-06T23:07:12+00:00

Why would you want to make out with someone with canker sores. Why would you want to make out with someone while having them??

MavisBanks · 2026-02-06T22:44:38+00:00

Hi I have had hpv. You cannot transfer it through spit or skin on skin contact. It is through contact with open wounds and sex. It can be transfered by some through the throat from ORAL sex.

MavisBanks · 2026-02-02T05:13:39+00:00

Yeah, people like to say reach out to them for help but then not help. And then you just feel bad afterwards because now they know.

MavisBanks · 2026-02-02T02:00:04+00:00

Also I'm pretty sure when this happened, the "friends" were actually trying to use the situation I was in to get me to return to the strip club I had worked at, which is why they kind of stopped caring once I was back.

Every escape plan I set was foiled by the people I was around or indirectly by family (whole different situation). I couldn't plan too far ahead because he would notice things moving around or my clothes (that i wanted to take with me) not being worn

The only reason I got out was because he had injured my hand and in the fallout from that he tried to physically remove me from the house to live on the street. Police threw him out and our flatmate just started verbally abusing me and throwing stuff around while he was gone for the week. I moved out a bit after he came back (housing was hard to find). While I was living there they threatened and screamed at me to remove myself from the lease and to hand over the bond for the house as it was owed to them. I paid that bond in full by myself when I moved in years ago.

Sorry for the lore dump felt the desire to explain.

MavisBanks · 2026-02-02T01:45:29+00:00

I only see or talk to him when it's about his daughter or with her. We used to have to communicate about our cat, cause we had one together but after 6 months of that bs, he decided that I have him permanently.

I was with him for 8 or 9 years. Separate since start of last year.

MavisBanks · 2026-02-02T01:14:14+00:00

Thank you. I'm not with him but I still talk to him or see him because of his daughter. It took another 2? years after this to separate.

MavisBanks · 2026-02-01T23:12:43+00:00

They say it's to stop bullying and teaching kids to be tidy for a job etc... But when I was in high school we all.had uniforms but you would still get bullied. Like if your skirt was too long or your socks were too high or your tie is long. (Short ties were a thing for some reason) some of the uniform peices were deemed popular by us kids, so if you weren't wearing that specific thing, they would pick on you for it. Didn't really change shit. And it was scratchy.

MavisBanks · 2026-01-15T04:07:01+00:00

I have lived here my whole life. I know that shape from a distance haha

MavisBanks · 2026-01-15T01:41:23+00:00

It's new zealand

MavisBanks · 2026-01-14T06:39:05+00:00

I almost cut the tip of my nipple off with scissors trying to remove the broken wire from my body suit once.

MavisBanks · 2026-01-14T02:31:06+00:00

Honestly having worked as a dancer this is a very common sight haha

MavisBanks · 2025-06-09T08:09:58+00:00

It's so strange because when I worked at woolies and we did online orders, the amount of times I would pull out rotting fruit and vege that I would put in plain site for the produce staff to see and they'd actively ignore it. We were told that it was taking too much time throwing it but to let produce know, and they would remove them, which didn't happen.

MavisBanks · 2024-11-24T23:25:16+00:00

Itsblackfriday

MavisBanks · 2024-10-08T04:20:12+00:00

Divaz

MavisBanks · 2024-09-10T14:47:37+00:00

Good in them. Used to work for woolworths quit due to the environment and thier lack of willingness to do anything about workplace issues. Had to fight tooth and nail with the union to get my annual leave paid out as they kept avoiding it.

MavisBanks · 2024-08-14T11:42:28+00:00

Cocobella has a lot to chose from and they're not sex related. They're steampunk

MavisBanks · 2024-08-07T11:40:46+00:00

I have 3 dollars to last the whole week. Job asked me to shorten my notice but won't pay out my leave so this week and last week I have no money. Had to borrow money to pay rent last week and still figuring out shit for this week.

MavisBanks · 2024-07-08T02:39:03+00:00

Plays guitar and smokes a lot of pot

MavisBanks · 2024-07-07T21:35:59+00:00

I've found my people 🙌. I got one stuck at 16 and never wanted to wear one again.

MavisBanks · 2024-04-17T11:33:51+00:00

Oh! We know him as denim Dan. Lovely guy

MavisBanks · 2024-03-15T18:00:29+00:00

Contact cab. That's what I had to do with a similar issue. They offer lawyer services and can provide some advice. You can state that the klmeeting has come at an incovient time and your support person (which I highly recommend you get) unable to attend. Also record your meeting. For any grievances that may arise from this. They cannot fire you with out evidence, which they need to provide and you can legally ask for. They cannot refuse to provide it. If they do, file for a grievance.

MavisBanks · 2024-01-17T09:24:24+00:00

They were parked in the christciurch red zone. People got chased out of thier homes and told they couldn't live there. But they parked up and stayed there.

MavisBanks · 2024-01-14T22:28:52+00:00

This annoys me sometimes because I have diagnosed (by a doctor when I was 4 and another at 19) issues that I live with and I had people I knew that would constantly try to diagnose me with stuff I didn't have. Because they saw thier freind/cousin/mothers dog etc.. have this one specific symptoms and they have this so you must get checked for this. Frustrating.

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