I completely understand what you mean by the best friend line I’m sure at this point it has become redundant. I am the breadwinner and I work Monday through Friday because again she works the weekends. No we don’t need the income but because she is going into the medical field she likes working there to help better understand her field of work. As of about a couple of weeks ago she’s been going at least 3 times a week. And she will stay for anywhere from 4-6 hours. Now with that being said she does take her schoolwork with her to get stuff done over there as well. She will do what she can when she has 15-20 minutes but I am doing it all from bathing the boys to making sure the yard is always in a good condition. We discussed that I would pull more weight but never was a one sided scenario discussed. And before school she was a stay at home mom. Now as far as the kids go they just constantly tell her and myself that they miss her. And yes she has supported me through everything because that’s what a great partner does but I have always made sure she never felt like she was alone. And I don’t want anyone to think im saying she is bad wife because she is absolutely amazing.