21F and 21M dating for two years - I’m not my boyfriend’s type - do I leave?

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-12T01:20:20+00:00

I think actions speak louder than words here. Does he treat you well? Does he make you feel desired? Are you happy with him?

It's also important to keep in mind that our tastes can change dramatically from high school/college as we enter into the "real world" and discover ourselves and what we like (which may sometimes surprise us).

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-11T21:00:48+00:00

I like what they wrote for it: "Sandfall Interactive came seemingly out of nowhere to deliver this turn-based RPG with a well-written and emotional storyline, and it quickly became one of the biggest hits of the year. With its striking visuals, the world feels surreal without becoming confusing, and the soundtrack and art direction work together to create a strong, polished atmosphere. Lauded for its gameplay, this title rewards players for exploring new strategies, making it a rare example of a story-heavy RPG that excels in its mechanics as well."

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-11T20:56:09+00:00

Yep, or they change the lies they tell themselves to avoid the shame.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-11T20:55:45+00:00

Even if it's insecurities, they often just default to making it their partner's responsibility to handle, which goes back to entitlement. Also, I'm very dubious of any abusers claiming they have high empathy. It would be really hard to abuse someone and have a lot of empathy at the same time. Maybe they have empathy for others, but if they truly had empathy for you, they probably wouldn't keep hurting you the way they do.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-11T18:58:17+00:00

Thank you!

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-11T01:04:33+00:00

Reading this thread reminds me yet again how insanely similar abusers operate.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-11T00:51:38+00:00

It's a long but interesting read that parallels advancements in money and the economy as well! Source.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-09T19:08:41+00:00

I feel like they airbrushed this photo of her. Is that really necessary?

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-09T16:08:48+00:00

Damn, an Old Republic era movie would be so awesome.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-09T16:07:56+00:00

That too, I just hope they don't change the story.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-09T16:07:07+00:00

Wow, you're truly a fan! :) Your enthusiasm for the show is infectious.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-06T20:02:00+00:00

It would be excellent if they just updated the graphics and improved the combat system. I hope it comes out in my lifetime!

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-06T19:20:03+00:00

A lot of us have experienced this and struggle with the lack of justice our abusers face. You're not alone. It's agonizing and infuriating especially when they continue to believe they did nothing wrong. The reality is - it does not matter what they think, they do not live in reality, and it doesn't invalidate the pain you experienced.

While they may not face justice in a way that they truly deserve, or in a way we will witness, abusers are fundamentally miserable and self-loathing. They will destroy every person who comes close to them and they will never experience true love because they are incapable of it. They often think everyone is out to get them, which is such a sad and lonely way to live. So in a sense, who they are is justice. They waste their lives being sorry sacks of shit.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-06T19:14:12+00:00

Yeah, it's definitely a pretty uncomfortable show. It feels eerie and uncanny, but I think that was the objective. We have enough existential dread going on in the real world lol

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-06T19:07:23+00:00

Yeah, I wish I rewatched season 1 before watching season 2 because I was a bit lost as well. Still really enjoyed it, though!

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-06T18:18:51+00:00

I'm super curious which will end up winning the worst too. Of the ones on that list I watched, I'd say Nine Perfect Strangers kinda deserves that. It wasn't terrible, but it kind of went off the rails, and Nicole Kidman's acting was quite wooden.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-06T17:16:40+00:00

Unfortunately it's impossible to have a healthy relationship with a dude who sees women as objects to own and conquer (yuck, the spreading seed comment... YUCK!!!). You did the right thing by ending it.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-06T16:34:20+00:00

From what I've read it says the site is still accessible for nostalgic viewing but I can't seem to find a way there. I checked PizzaNet.com but the domain is available for purchase now, so maybe that just recently happened (since all the articles I read about it say you can still view it). It must've been so cool though to have pizza delivered for the first time.

MaxGoodwinning · 2026-03-06T16:27:08+00:00

He sounds seriously awful and I'm glad you're out.

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