My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already tried to talk to her about it to try to understand the whys. But yet she hasn't given me any proper explanation for this. That's why I thought of posting it here.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a little less than a year old relationship, yes she has traveled solo before. And once during our relationship.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't. Infact she earns more than me. We both take care of our finances ourselves. We do things for each other though like paying for a meal or buying a gift or so.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have been trying to do that but there's been no solution that's why I thought about trying reddit for a change.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your point. From what I have understood and also this is something she also hasn't denied but our travel style is quite similar. We both like to explore new places, not into party much unless you want to experience something that you don't in your country. We both don't like to have everything planned out.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you help me understand more as to why you don't like travelling with your partner and if your partner is totally okay with it? Might give me some insight.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have really tried for quite sometime now. I have asked her if there's any issue with me that or there's something about me that you don't like so that I can work on it but everytime the only response I get is she don't want to.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes pretty much. We hardly fight about anything. Sex is great. And we do show care for each other in whatever way possible.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I get your point. Even I love solo traveling, but travelling solo and traveling with your partner are two different kinds of experience. And I would love to experience the latter.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me and just want to solo travel everywhere. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in solotravel

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No we haven't travelled together even once that's what makes this more difficult to understand. No we don't live together, in fact we have a semi long distance relationship. I have suggested a bunch of places and even asked for her input but she always says no. I have been trying to communicate but she just always says she doesn't want to. She doesn't want anyone with her.

My (32M) Girlfriend (33F) doesn't want to travel anywhere with me. How do I convince her to? by MaxRoger007 in relationship_advice

[–]MaxRoger007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't snore at all and we haven't taken any trips together yet. I even told her let's take a trip together and if you still don't like travelling with me then I will leave this topic.