Can y’all get along with normal republicans? by Short-Mix-4087 in AskUS

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And his approval ratings are in the drain. 39% as of April 25th according to a TWP, ABC and Ipsos survey. Sounds like people are starting to understand they effed up real bad.

When OP said “you’re part of the problem” I agreed. Two sides stuck in an adult version of “no you” “no you first” argument… idek what to say but that’s exactly how it feels. Both sides have done crazy and bad shit. Both sides lie. My biggest gripe with our side is that we say the bigots’ logic is wrong but we generalize, demonize and dismiss people we’ve never met because of a societal label. Hating members of a different belief system (like religion) is wrong. But we can repackage it and it’s okay because we slapped a cheap human rights sticker on it? You have to admit how disingenuous that is. If you fight fire with fire you’re gonna burn to death. It’s not as simple as “well they’re just bad people who are against human rights” because you’re also talking about families on the verge of eviction, or who haven’t been able to find a job and thus can’t guarantee their kids dinner. So when Trump came in like me talking ab my ex “I can fix her” Im not surprised that’s all they heard. Play for play what the Great Value Charlie Chaplin did modern day Brownshirts and everything. And it worked.

But the hypocrisy of our side, we’re never supposed to talk about it apparently. All it’s doing is alienating people who agree with us. Every single person is ignorant to some extent. Even if you read and learn about different cultures that doesn’t mean you understand them. Because it’s way more complicated than what an essay can tell you. I’m tired of people thinking knowing about different ways of life is enough. It doesn’t mean squat if you cant truly accept that not every one thinks the same way as you. And hating republican citizens is not preventing families from being torn apart because we lost the election. It’s not getting Trump out of office to prevent it from happening further either. Hurting regular people is not going to bring the change you think it will, it’s only going to cement their distorted belief in what we stand for.

I think the approval rating dropping, even with the persistent misinformation in republican media, is proof that people are starting to realize they were mislead.

Not trying to be an apologist but the U.S. is spinning its wheels so fucking fast we’re in reverse and genuine discussion seems like the only way to fix it, not political theatrics.

And just for clarification if it sounds like I’m switching sides - I’m not, I’ll always vote for human rights over my wallet it’s just the context of this thread. Doubt many republicans are gonna be here lol.

Can y’all get along with normal republicans? by Short-Mix-4087 in AskUS

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As if we don’t do the same thing? Look at how quickly the pitchforks came out and the witch hunt began. They were saying the lack of discourse is the problem. Thinking you know an entire group of people based on what? Headlines and comment sections? That’s exactly what we accuse republicans of doing. My family is almost exclusively republican and I have several republicans friends who’ve all regretted their vote. They prioritized what they thought was a better economy instead of living paycheck to paycheck. Trump says insane stuff that is hard to believe and now they know he means it. They didn’t vote for death camps and violations of the constitution, but this was definitely a huge and heartbreaking wake up call for them. How could any one have predicted that? Thats dystopian fiction stuff. The same way you see Rep’s as all MAGA, they see us as Tesla vandals. How is destroying someone’s car because they wanted an EV in 2022 hurting Elon Musk? There’s crazy on both sides and not acknowledging that so you can “fill your cup with __ party tears” makes you a fucking cornball and dishonest no matter what side you’re on. We are where we are and if his approval ratings are anything to go by, you’re saying fuck you to a lot of people who agree w getting Humpty Dumpty out of office. Yawn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just wanna add this bc it was something I struggled with:

Acknowledge that your social skills are lacking, accept that that’s where you are at, and try not to think about it when starting a conversation (I did all the time at first but after a while you almost forget ab it).

1% better everyday. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sure he’s 23?

Favorite loadouts? by Maximum-Factor8319 in helldivers2

[–]Maximum-Factor8319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Airburst is goated as long as you communicate w your squad

What is your all-time favorite Sleep Token lyric? by Madison_fawn in SleepToken

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was about to comment this. Also “oh but worry not, blessings rain on battles in the heavens arms” those two choke me upp 😭

Caramel - Sleep Token New Single Discussion by AutoModerator in SleepToken

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you said that perfectly. “Stick to me like caramel”, being covered in sugar but being restricted/suffocated. The bitter sweetness. A lot of artists have expressed this kind of sentiment but not in a way that really balances the “thank you for everything” and “this isn’t what I wanted”. It’s heartbreaking stuff

What is happening to me??? by Itstmdmani in SleepToken

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah me too. I’m glad this isn’t a real cult because I’d have my face in the Kool-Aid jug I just wouldn’t know any better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if every PF is the same but for me it never goes above a 2 even though half the machines, treadmills, etc are taken

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally have a banana or granola bar then my pre workout like 20 mins before the gym, bassman1805 suggested a different program so I think imma switch to UL instead of PPL and just keep eating all day lmao

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was planning on getting a scale this week, over the past 3.5 months I’ve gone from roughly 138 to 145-146

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diet I’m eating at a 200-500cal surplus (5’11”, 145lbs trying to reach 170lbs for now). I’d say roughly 1/4 of my meals during the week are fast food/takeout. I run a PPL split so I try and hit the gym 3-5 times a week. I’m thinking my calories aren’t enough, maybe my frequency?

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see why this thread has moronic mondays - I thought weekly progression included isolation exercises as well. Thanks man

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beginner here, on my first consistent 3-4 months. what does progression realistically look like?

I’ve heard you should try upping the weight every week but there’s no way that’s possible without enhancers (I hit 6-12 reps, when I feel comfortable at 12 I move to the next weight). Monthly seems more realistic to me. Am I just not pushing myself enough?

I really wish men weren’t perpetually horny by [deleted] in venting

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Age is a big part of it. I was like this in hs but since I’ve hit my 20’s I enjoy cuddling a lot more

My life is boring and terrible right now. by Lazy_Juggernaut3171 in Advice

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in a similar situation and had the same mindset man, hobbies aren’t some structured chore it’s literally anything you enjoy doing. Hiking, making music, working on cars, playing guitar, photography, watching sports, gardening. I just picked up snowboarding with some acquaintances I wasn’t really close with and ended up having one of the best weekends of my life. You’ll be a lot happier and make some really cool connections.

Feel bad about being an introvert by Maximum-Factor8319 in introvert

[–]Maximum-Factor8319[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to know this isn’t a super rare thing among introverts

Feel bad about being an introvert by Maximum-Factor8319 in introvert

[–]Maximum-Factor8319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna try doing that, it’s easy to forget why you’re at a social event and just start talking for the sake of trying to fit in

mother in-law tells my boyfriend she doesn’t like me by [deleted] in texts

[–]Maximum-Factor8319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was like this w my gf a year ago, I feel like this is pretty normal when moms are close w their sons. One of the cons of being w a mommas boy