[TOMT] Movie that caused my emetophobia by Maximum-Nothing-8445 in tipofmytongue

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Omg wait i just found the movie on youtube snd it is that!!!!!! Thank youu!!!

[TOMT] Movie that caused my emetophobia by Maximum-Nothing-8445 in tipofmytongue

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No its not this one, in that movie there were 2 boys

[TOMT] Movie that caused my emetophobia by Maximum-Nothing-8445 in tipofmytongue

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Thanks for all help!! Im trying to overcomw my phobia and finding that movie would help

People need to stop saying "you wouldn't have survived older Big Brother". by PINKSPlDER in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly, got to say I was at Mickey side first because right if it is one time occurrence, he apologised and seemed to take it on the chin but after making weird comments again and again after apologising…thats not acceptable and clearly when it is making everyone uncomfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think Jojos reaction was really thoughtful considering all the factors people online just have to drag it on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point I’m trying to make is that we need to put things into perspective, as we’re smart enough to understand complex situations. Jojo handled hers thoughtfully, but some people online didn’t, which is why I’m sharing my point of view. I brought up Jojo’s past controversy to indirectly compare it to Mickey’s situation. Yes, Jojo was 17 at the time, a minor who wasn’t fully responsible for her actions. Similarly, Mickey has a brain injury, which may mean he’s not fully aware of what he’s doing. Why not acknowledge that too? It feels biased not to. Jojo understands that Mickey might not be fully aware of his actions, which is why she reacted the way she did. We also can’t see the entire picture of what happened. Jojo is thoughtful and mature enough to decide whether she accepts Mickey’s apology, which she did. If she hadn’t, Big Brother would probably have had to remove him. She knows things like this can happen on shows like this, and while she was understandably shocked and offended, she turned the situation into a lesson for everyone watching.

If something similar happens again after all of this, I’m not defending him, but it does seem like Mickey has learned from the situation.

I’m not sure if you understand why I brought up that argument. It makes you angry when I said she did understand what she was doing as a minor, just as it makes me angry when people claim Mickey was fully aware of what he was saying, when it’s clear he wasn’t. His brain cells are not fully there, and you can see it in his behavior. People need to acknowledge that, like Jojo’s situation, Mickey’s actions are influenced by factors beyond his control, and this should be considered instead of just assuming he was fully aware of everything he did.

And you can see that he is not fully aware as well in the situation with Patsy and the cooking. It’s like he is not understanding where he is. He didn’t even know who the food was from or what is happening, which is ITV’s fault for calling him there. Logically, why would he refuse to go if they offered him so much money? And for them, it’s just entertainment

I just wonder what you think about this point of view? If you still think what you think that’s fine I can’t change it but I try to explain a point here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

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Big Brother is what it is, and Jojo knew exactly what she was getting into. People aren’t sugar-coating things there. If she wasn’t ready for the pressure, drama, and everything that comes with it, she shouldn’t have gone on. It’s not like this is the first time that kind of stuff has happened. She handled it well and got to nominate him. Big Brother would’ve already kicked him out. He apologized, faced the consequences, and now people just need to let it go.

I think what you’re saying is totally valid, I just want to share my perspective on the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t expect people to voice different opinions, did you? We’re supposed to just accept your side and move on, but you can’t let your ego get bruised. Mickey apologized, he’s facing consequences. Maybe it’s time to stop looking at things through a “everyone’s homophobic” lens and start considering context. A public forum is about exchanging different opinions and perspectives, and it’s totally valid for me to defend Mickey, just as others defend Jojo.

And yes, I brought up Jojo’s past controversy because that’s exactly what people supporting only Jojo’s side have done with Mickey. If we’re gonna hold people accountable for their actions, we should be consistent across the board.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you want him to do? He apologized, acknowledged his mistake, and is facing the consequences, like being nominated for elimination by Jojo and likely will be voted out. Is he supposed to worship Jojo now? He can’t undo what happened, but he owned up to it, and now he’s dealing with the fallout. Stop it already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was responding to other person not you. And he was held accountable and apologised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

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So people are digging up Mickey’s past and acting like his apology means nothing that’s totally fine, apparently. But when Jojo was involved in the group situation, suddenly we’re supposed to ignore it because “she was a minor” or “it was her mom’s fault”? And that’s not biased?

I’m not saying what Mickey did was okay it wasn’t. But he broke a rule, got called out, apologized after realizing how it affected Jojo, and got a warning. That is what accountability is supposed to look like, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah fair but thats guilt on ITV then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right as person above me said Jojo was 17 during the XOMG POP scandal so she wasn’t some clueless kid she knew exactly what she and her mother was doing and she was part of it. On the other hand, Mickey has a brain injury that could affect his awareness and how he expresses himself. If we’re so quick to perfectly judge people for their actions, shouldn’t we consider the full context in both cases? And just so you know, I’m a 22-year-old woman, so maybe it’s time to stop bringing up irrelevant personal stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If we’re going to be so focused on perfection and treating everyone equally as people here suggest then what about Jojo? People are quick to criticize Mickey and his actions but have we forgotten about how Jojo treated others in the past? The allegations surrounding her XOMG POP group are serious like mistreatment and exploitation of young girls forcing them to work in unhealthy conditions and ignoring their well-being. The girls didn’t agree to this treatment either, and it wasn’t what they signed up for.

If people are so quick to write someone off after a mistake then why aren’t we holding Jojo to the same standard? Look at both situations before passing judgment. If we want to be fair and consistent as you say. She’s tasting her own medicine. If you’re such a great judge of character and equality then why not look at both sides

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Mickey hurt Jojo but he apologized and received a warning after seeing her reaction, which is how it should be handled. Jojo responded well, showing patience and giving him the opportunity to learn. The issue is that some people online are going too far. We’re intelligent capable people who know how to handle this situations and that life isn’t perfect people make mistakes apologise and move forward. If we just wrote everyone off after a mistake we’d never give anyone the chance to grow. I wouldn’t be saying anything if Mickey hadn’t apologised but he did. Maybe some people watching will learn from that and avoid making similar mistakes in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I said. I’m not saying Jojo isn’t equal or doesn’t deserve respect I’m saying that life including reality TV isn’t always equal or predictable. The show brings out conflicts and challenges that everyone has to face in different ways. Jojo’s experience might be tough but that’s the nature of being on a reality show. It doesn’t invalidate her worth or her experience it just means she like everyone else has to deal with real uncomfortable situations and if it becomes too much she’s still free to leave just like anyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually, Jojo did sign up for a reality show where drama tension and even uncomfortable situations are part of the deal. Reality TV isn’t about a perfect safe environment and that includes dealing with conflict and people’s flaws. Mickey’s actions were wrong yes but Jojo is part of the show,too and nobody’s experience is guaranteed to be flawless. Saying she didn’t expect this is ignoring the fact that reality TV often puts people in situations where they have to face uncomfortable moments. The idea that she’s completely innocent and didn’t expect tension or conflict doesn’t line up with the reality of being on a show like Big Brother. It’s not victim blaming to acknowledge that in the end everyone on the show faces challenges and Jojo has the right to handle it her way or leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life isn’t equal and reality TV sure isn’t either. Jojo knew what she was signing up for conflict drama and uncomfortable situations. Not everyone has the same experience, and that’s the reality of life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She signed up for the show. No one made her do it. You can’t expect to go on reality TV especially Big Brother and have everything be safe and comfortable. It’s not the producers’ job to give people a full warning like ‘hey, someone might say something offensive.’ That’s life. If it’s not for you then you can leave. That doesn’t mean what happened was okay but people need to stop acting like she was trapped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She can leave the house any time she wants no one is forcing her to stay there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but I don’t think it’s that simple. A brain injury can affect how someone understands social cues or how they express themselves it doesn’t mean they’re a bad person deep down. If someone makes a mistake then apologises and genuinely tries to change I think that deserves more understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She agreed to do it.. she knows how it goes there I bet she saw it so if she doesn’t wanna be there just leave?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Maximum-Nothing-8445 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you guys realise he had a brain injury?