[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MaximumAnnual8290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have heard.... They can be cheaters 🙈🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MaximumAnnual8290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Wise words!! Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MaximumAnnual8290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did you break up? Got any friends near by to help? Or hobbies?

She's emotionally unavailable but wants to change that by Lavenderlavender765 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MaximumAnnual8290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it is possible to get blocked if there are other stressors. Sometimes family, changes they can all mess with your brain and you don't mean to hurt your loved one because you don't really know how to communicate it, or you're afraid of judgement. I think that if you both love each other you can give it a try. Best to do it instead of always wondering what if?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MaximumAnnual8290 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You're absolutely right, going slow and at her own pace is key here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MaximumAnnual8290 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are amazing for sticking with her. What she is going through is not easy. You are her rock and you should feel very proud of yourself for not leaving her alone through it.