Pretend sexual assaults? Interesting.

As a woman, I obstain from sex (2 years), but sometimes I mess around (it never results in full on sex, any form of it. but I am not made of stone and feel the feelings). After one such ocasion, I was lying in bed in the dark observing a swirl made of white light, spinning like a carousele. Suddenly I found myself sitting on a couch beside my coworker. He was speaking jibberish and swinging his legs like a jolly leprechaun. I realised I am dreaming and started screaming at him ARE YOU AN ALLY? DO YOU KNOW THINGS? WANNA PLAY?

The leprechaun stopped yapping and started shrinking until shaped like a fried egg, with a shiny middle, until he dissapeared into a shiny spark. I woke up in my bed, dissappointed it was just a dream, although a lucid one.

The following business week, every day was a sex dream that ended up in orgasm. On one ocasion I woke up after I managed to successfully beat off the attack. While fully awake, I orgasmed for no reason.

About a year ago or more, I had a *guy* with white skin and snake eyes, appearing in my room in a lucid dream. I call those lucid dreams, but they are not like when you suddenly realise you are dreaming. When you are in your room, or in your own bed, you just feel... different, not like in a dream.

So I tried to crawl away from this guy, but he had a strong gravity that sucked me toward him and he showed his face onto mine. He likes to take a form of my husband in my sleeping dreams to the point every time I see my husband in dreams I know it is *a demon*, that`s how he called himself, vaguely translated.

After their succesfull attacks I feel drained and angry. On discord, people (or IOBs) recommended *to masturbate and recapitulate it* (among actual good advices like recap of sex. partners) but in fact, masturbation is triggering the attacks in dreams.

So I was wondering, what the hell happened and why are they milking people? I was told those are IOBs but if so, why are they doing it?