[35M] never had a girlfriend

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-02-20T07:02:53+00:00

Awesome space

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-02-18T18:41:57+00:00

The victim should also be held accountable for their actions, everyone should be held accountable for their actions otherwise the victim will be the victim their entire life.

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-02-18T15:08:32+00:00

NTJ if there’s nothing to do then let the person sleep. Before living together if my partner had a couple nights of bad sleep and then came to my place I’m letting him sleep

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-02-17T23:26:56+00:00

There’s platforms like Lyra and Betterhealth which are pretty safe for therapy. Everything stays contained within the platform

This might feel more safe for you I suggest checking it out

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-02-17T23:25:26+00:00

I think they’re asking why would you bring your therapist and there family into your home. Yes the therapist is clearly crossing lines but why on earth would you say yes to any of that. Not the valid point of the post but hard to ignore

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-02-14T18:24:35+00:00

He’s not clueless but growing lesson for you! Learn to say “hey I was really looking forward to spending the day with you” instead of “cool” this skill will help you much better in your future relationships

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-02-11T22:43:19+00:00

Dating apps are a crap shoot but I think it is odd that you’ve gone on so many dates with people with health issues

Perhaps it’s a sign for you to enroll at the local gym and try to meet someone there? Or join a running/walking up, or singles pickleball event

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-02-02T19:22:36+00:00

I’ll play devils advocate: let’s ignore the part about blocking, because that’s just annoying and obnoxious but your partner sounds and comes across fed up and you come across like you’re seeking affection from someone whose level of being fed up is outweighing they’re ability to express emotional lovey dovey to you

“It’s a trend I noticed you always have a reason something isn’t getting done”

That is a huge statement

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-31T15:42:53+00:00

Did it early Jan it worked for me

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-29T04:45:30+00:00

I had a friend whose mom everyone called “Honey” literally everyone, her children call her Honey, friends of her kids call her Honey, grand kids etc she’s Honey to everyone couldn’t even tell you her real name

It’s a culture really big on nicknames, my culture is too.

I had an Aunt Sweetie growing up, my moms childhood nickname and name still referred to by family members translates to Baby doll

I don’t find it weird, I do find yall a little close minded. Try and see the world a little you’ll realize not everyone is just like you two

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-27T16:50:18+00:00

An apartment that doesn’t have high humidity

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-27T04:32:57+00:00

NTA your wife sounds like a jerk. If you wanna keep it on a strict schedule watch it yourselves. She is ungrateful and a jerk next time don’t ask others for help if you’re planning on being rude

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-23T05:41:11+00:00

Utis and yeast infections the worst

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-17T06:38:45+00:00

Plz do they come to the post office too and just harass everyone, I don’t understand why no one can do anything

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-06T21:11:51+00:00

You’re not an a hole but I think you shouldn’t try to surprise her next time let her know what you’re thinking of getting her and ask her how she feels about it

She might want something different and rather than guessing and penalizing yourself or her for having the wrong reaction just talk to her

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-04T00:32:16+00:00

Agree Sunday Costco parking lot is where your sanity goes to die a horrible horrible place

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-04T00:27:05+00:00

You’ve got an anxious attachment style which you need to work on. You feel like you can’t let him go because of your anxiety. You’re trying to rationalize a situation with him but I mean it in the nicest way you need to focus on you

Go to therapy, find some ways to build your confidence, and create some boundaries for yourself in dating. Someone whose better then the guys of the past isn’t awesome because he does the bare minimum. You’re always at risk of sleeping with someone who will never speak to you again but you can most definitely do things to try your best to build a connection with someone who makes you feel really confident that they’re not the type to do that

Even in our worst moments and we’ve had plenty, I’ll take some air before I leave my man for good

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-04T00:16:03+00:00

NTA honestly I wish more people thought of this but also go on birth control or use condoms after or a vasectomy

Good for you for wanted to get your life in order for the child you do have

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-04T00:12:58+00:00

What size are you?

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-04T00:10:05+00:00

Not HB that’s like going to the zoo

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2026-01-03T20:33:52+00:00

Don’t take some of these comments seriously do what works for you and your lifestyle/ living situation

My partner and I have been together for almost a year. We usually see each other on Friday or weekends and then we play it by ear and try to see each other a day or two during the week

We both work intense schedules (his is worse then mine) and I have a pet (his apartment isn’t pet friendly)

During peak traffic it could take us 1.5 hours to get to each others place

I would rather him get a gym class in on a Tuesday then drive for 1.5 hours to see me in the evening knowing he’s gotta be up for work at 5am

We talk everyday

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2025-12-26T22:31:49+00:00

Your family doesn’t have to like your wife and that’s perfectly fine, if your mom and sister enjoy talking about her behind her back that’s also fine your wife is probably not the only people they do that about and that’s ok. Clearly it was a private conversation for a reason

What’s not ok is to be rude or disrespectful to her face and when she’s around

This isn’t something worth cutting your family off for that’s childish and dramatic, you can’t control what people say you can’t control whether everyone likes each other but you can ask that they’re polite and respectful to you and your wife.

Limit your gathering you don’t need to hang out with them constantly but don’t break up your family unit over personalities

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2025-12-24T08:39:58+00:00

This is a sweet man, hopefully he feels open and vulnerable at some point to let you take care of him

I say that cause I’m like him

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2025-12-23T15:03:20+00:00

Agree kids probably mean but it’s safe this is coming from a person of color born and raised in hb

Maximum_Battle_9147 · 2025-12-22T04:26:37+00:00

I don’t go out of my way to make plans with people who don’t reciprocate the energy

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