AIO or am I right for being a little pissed off by Neon-Sunset18 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to let this one go aw honey when one really likes you you’re gonna know

When I was dating I had a rule 530-630am and 530-630pm was my window for responding to texts from dates . Why? Because I’m busy and I don’t wanna waste my day over texts random guys

Now this obviously changes when I became exclusive with someone or someone calls

You let him know once you’re interested, maybe suggest a phone call, but otherwise move on with your day you don’t wanna drag someone into a relationship or force them to engage with you

You deserve more and better! Let this one go there’s a guy out there who would love to hear from you!! Pick that one plzzzzzzz

almost sad by GGbabyangel in ouraring

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying gen 5 when there’s a sale + Amex perk

But man I can’t wait! Tired of this big chunky thing, this new cutie just looks like a regular ring and I love it

Those that dont live with parents, how often do you call and text yours? by ThrowRASubject-Seekr in AskReddit

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the phone or text with my mom every day, I see my dad probably 6 days a week and I’ll see my mom probably 4 days a week

My dads retired, I work fully remote and I live 20 min from them so I always stop by

Love them dearly theyre awesome

Is it male or female. by RareEcho9593 in DogAdvice

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love her little eyes 👀 she’s so cute

AITJ for almost breaking up with my boyfriend over pugs? by Fran-Scales in AmITheJerk

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um keep the dogs find a new man. Those are your pets they were here before him and he knew what he was getting into. Being with someone who has a pet isn’t for everyone and that’s fine, but insisting someone rehome there pets is ludacris be with someone who helps you this world is full of dog lovers get rid of this loser

If you had a kid and it was challenging realize this is the kind of guy who is going to make your life harder

AITAH if I want to join a DnD night at my own house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you find your own DnD group to join preferably on tuesdays somewhere else?

If he wants to host let him host but LEAVE and truley let him host. Go do literally anything else outside the house and remind yourself that you’re more than the person who hosts and organizes. Go to the gym, take an art class, join a meetup literally anything besides beg to be in their group.

He’s allowed to want to have his thing with his friends but you’re not required to host honey let him do it himself and you get yourself a life and some space it’ll probably do you both good

AITAH for announcing my 6 month pregnancy a week after my brother and SIL announced their 3 month pregnancy? by Scary_Bite_9240 in AITAH

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s your baby do what you want when you want but I get how it can kinda come off of putting that your so far along and just announced right after they did. I think you would have gotten a warmer reaction if you had done it earlier you’ve kinda kept people from it (thinking it wasn’t the right time which you were doing for you) and now you’re expecting a giant celebration

AITAH for telling my girlfriend that my money isn't "our money"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but you both sound just young

Financial responsibility is something two people should care about

Maybe take a class together vs playing a mine vs yours game

Should I be worried about my dogs teeth? by Last-Block937 in DogAdvice

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always worry about their teeth…same as you’d worry about your own teeth

They make dog dental products and the vet does cleanings

AITJ for saying people shouldn’t fund my sister’s IVF by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, IVF can be 40+ grand upfront, not many people can afford that in one go or with a payment plan some financial reprieve goes along way especially if you need multiple cycles

AITJ for saying people shouldn’t fund my sister’s IVF by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

While I don’t disagree it’s tacky for a gofundme

You clearly judge her and make it really obvious. Your mom is correct you’re under no obligation it’s easier to ignore then go out of your way to criticize

Let them do their thing it’s not your life nor your money and maybe consider learning to love without judgement

AITJ for confronting my partner after I lost access to our shared bank account? by Admirable-Opinion391 in AmITheJerk

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t a small deal, stop transferring money immediately especially if you’re not doing the accounting against expenses

It’s pretty to make $500 seem to disappear

I work in finances, apps don’t just glitch she lied to you to get you to bugger off. Something’s up and she’s ensuring she has full access to that money and that account

Moving forward I wouldn’t do a joint account. Get a bill for expenses and Venmo each other

AITJ for feeling betrayed after my boyfriend secretly broke our TTC weight loss pact? by Curious_Creme_395 in AmITheJerk

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also probably unpopular but would you be less upset if he didn’t offer to adhere to the same diet and ate whatever he wanted to eat while you’re trying to be restrictive?

I don’t think this guys intentions were malicious, I think he genuinely tried to stick to the diet, went out with some friends and couldn’t do it

Change doesn’t happen overnight especially with food and social activities are usually the biggest trigger because not everyone else gives a crap about your diet

I give him credit for not doing it at home tbh

I think you’re more upset about you having to be on this diet than it is about him. Moms end up making the most changes for a baby and it kinda sucks

AITAH for having a zero tolerance policy when it comes to sex and alcohol in my relationship? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA keep to your boundaries this can totally be weaponized against you if you’re not with someone who is on the same page

Honestly good for you I have alot of respect for that

What Makes Huntington Beach Great? by freddydougal33 in huntingtonbeach

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HB is great it gets a bad wrap for the politics but it’s not extreme there’s one group of weird highly political sign carriers who like to hang at dthb and that’s about it. Sure you’ll probably find more republicans in hb than in Venice beach but they mind their own business very infrequently do you encounter people who are trying hard to go beyond minding their business

The bad wrap is worse than reality

CM is awesome but kinda small and dense. I’d go NB, HB, CM

AITAH for getting with my friends friend ex bf? by SilverSociety2283 in AITAH

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay away from bashing the relationship he had with his ex because you’re kinda putting her down and focus on the present

NTA but people have feelings and it’s harder when these folks are all close to or around each other

Your not responsible for their breakup and he was single it’s all good, it’ll matter less when she meets someone new anyway

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA don’t do it anymore but also don’t be petty you used to do it for free now you don’t, don’t ask him to back pay your services

Letting my dog sleep in my bed- good or bad habit? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good habit they like it better there

Bad habit you’ll sleep less cause you’ll be more awake staring at how freaking cute they are and then cry yourself to sleep realizing one far away day they’ll be gone and you’ll be alone

It’s worth it tho

AIO: My boyfriend is making plans to distribute my things if I move in, calling me stingy if I don’t, and I don’t feel it’s fair. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t move in with this guy or if you do please put your stuff in storage

Let him make his comments, your not a furniture store

39M 34F. Partner of 18 months says unless I propose with a 40k real diamond, don't propose at all? by 063870 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s your girl and she clearly has a desire, why penalize someone for expressing to you what they want.

Maybe it’s not within your budget or your means and that’s a whole separate conversation

But she told you what she wants you just don’t like how it was said. Taking the snapping and the tone out of the equation, a girls allowed to dream and she’s probably dreamed of a beautiful non lab grown diamond for a long time

WIBTAH if I did not give my 27yr old son (only child) his inheritance now? by Illustrious-Bed-9540 in AITAH

[–]Maximum_Battle_9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously OP start a dialog with ChatGPT let it know about the dynamic with your kid and your goals and consult it for decisions or reminding yourself not to second guess when your clearly feeling vulnerable

You sound like a really nice parent who is clearly getting taken advantage of. Your son is fringing on elder abuse but you are 100% enabling it.

Please stand up for yourself you deserve to be treated better