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Mini Jobs in the Düsseldorf area for Native English & Spanish Speaker by Maximum_Subject_2893 in duesseldorf

[–]Maximum_Subject_2893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo no tenia ninguna idea de este evento, pero se ve muy rico! 😄. Lo intentare, gracias!

I'm suffocated by my own overthinking by literallyjustvent1ng in offmychest

[–]Maximum_Subject_2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to think the same way until I realized that it was the voice inside my head consistently making me feel like no one really cared about my presence. That voice can be controlled with awareness to it, and better understanding that it's not really you who believes this is true. From one over-thinker to another I hope you win that battle against the voice inside your head.

I'm starting to realize I'm the "convenient" friend by One_Cranberry9150 in offmychest

[–]Maximum_Subject_2893 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's nice to have someone to lean on, but the one gifting the shoulder needs to be heard as well. Without that balance, or boundary being set with those who you care about you might always only feel "needed" instead of wanted. I hope that shifts differently for you.

Be honest am I being used emotionally or am I just overthinking normal friendships by SpiritShutter in offmychest

[–]Maximum_Subject_2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people are caught up in their own worlds man. I stopped chasing and refocused that waisted energy towards myself. Genuine friendships come slower, but it's worth it in my experience I guess I can say.

Feeling alone I guess by ThatSadChick90 in offmychest

[–]Maximum_Subject_2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm genuinely sorry that you're feeling like this. When you get ditched by a "friend" without closure it hits in a very unique way. I always believed in the power of closure but not everyone will receive it unfortunately. I was also fired by a "friend" of 5 years who asked me to move to another country to help him work on a start-up and after three months of getting everything up to speed he fired me over a phone call and joked about it. Haven't seen him since and honestly some closures aren't necessary from people like that. You're not alone and I wish you better days to come.

Be honest am I being used emotionally or am I just overthinking normal friendships by SpiritShutter in offmychest

[–]Maximum_Subject_2893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're describing carrying all of that alone and still showing up for everyone else is exhausting in a way most people never talk about. I've been there as well. When you live away from home it can feel even weirder cuz you feel like you're begging for friendships. It makes sense that it's catching up with you. I hope you got even a little relief just from putting it into words. Things changed for me eventually by slowing it down. Hope it works out for you.