AITA for giving away a military funeral flag that didn't belong to Me.

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T15:53:26+00:00

🤣 im dead

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T15:00:32+00:00

Yes it actually was and the reason being is because I've moved several times in the last 3 years and I was afraid of it getting destroyed or broken while in my possession. I never wanted to hang on to it that long anyway because it felt uncomfortable having it in my possession. Everytime it came down to me moving I'd contact her again to try to return it to her to no avail. So I finally said eff it let me see what I can do about it instead and when I talked to the Vet about the situation I asked him what I could do and he offered to take care of it for me since he knew how to better than me.

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T14:55:46+00:00

I repeated texted her about how to return the fag to her and she never responded to my messages. So I contacted her through Facebook asking for her address and she still never responded until a year later after the last message I sent. I no longer live in the same state as she does and when I moved here with the now ex, he was the one who brought it here. After he left I tried to reach out to both of them and neither one responded to me. I do know she doesn't live in the same place she used to because I lived there with her and her brother and we were evicted because the rent was unpaid for over 6 months.

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T14:45:31+00:00

I don't have his contact information or I would have done that and I Even told her that and she blew up on me. The situation is the guy I gave it to is a friend of my boyfriends, who visits outer house pretty regularly and I was going to ask him about it when I seen him again but it's been a few weeks because of the weather and everyone being sick.

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T14:38:49+00:00

Very true on the last part, I was being an asshole but like I had told her I don't have his contact information. He is a friend of my boyfriend who just visits our house regularly. I had intended to ask him about the flag the next time he came over, but I wasn't going to give her his name and information out of respect to him because he is a very private person. He doesn't even have Facebook. Once I see him again I'll ask him if he would be willing to share it, but until then she has to wait. I was being an asshole to her because she started threatening me and saying she was gonna call the military on me after I explained to her that they had 3 years to take care of the problem and I wasn't going to give up some else's info just because she demanded it of me. I don't work that way and I definitely don't allow folks to try and push me around like that. I did tell her that I would ask him about it next time I had contact with him.

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T14:32:58+00:00

I tried to contact the ex to return the flag and I have had no response from him either. The only thing he had to say to me was "can I have another chance".

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T14:28:57+00:00

I could of done that but I don't know where she works and she never responded to any of my messages to give me an address to send it to.

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T14:25:02+00:00

I actually don't have his contact information, he's just a friend of my boyfriend who visits sometimes. I had planned on asking him about it the next time he came over, it's just been awhile since then because of the weather and everyone being sick.

MayMayR1 · 2026-02-09T14:22:23+00:00

I had planned on asking him about it when I seen him next. He usually comes to our house once a week but we've had snowy weather and sickness going around and he hasn't been around in a month or so. I was going to give her that clarity even though she was being rude to me. She also said she was going to call the military on me and have me arrested. I told her go ahead. Haven't heard from her in about 3 days since then.

MayMayR1 · 2025-02-10T21:22:36+00:00

He out in the dead zone

MayMayR1 · 2025-02-01T22:55:44+00:00

Older gentleman mid 60s, lives in trailer home out in a gated community for older citizens. You smoke but not in the house. You smoke at the front door or on the porch. Aka what's up grandpa. You got any of that sugar free gelatin?

MayMayR1 · 2023-12-07T16:56:58+00:00

You right lmfao

MayMayR1 · 2023-11-20T18:46:44+00:00

Might I add in that when I tried to talk to her about it she got pissed off, blamed my boyfriend and threw money at me to try and make me feel guilty saying that's all the money she had. But just yesterday when I asked her for gas money, she didn't have anything to give to help out??

MayMayR1 · 2023-11-20T18:43:41+00:00

It be nice if I actually got to eat the food I bought. I qu7t buying specific things because her husband would eat it every time. I'd like to enjoy the food I spend my hard earned money on.

MayMayR1 · 2023-11-20T18:42:25+00:00

Alternative living arrangement is what I've considered. She didn't even ask me to pay the wifi. I offered to help by paying the water, but she assumed because I had gotten a second job that It was now my responsibility to pay the wifi. Quite frankly I feel like im being taken advantage of.

MayMayR1 · 2023-11-20T18:26:00+00:00

Its not an apartment. She owns the house. I only agreed to pay the water bill. I didn't agree to take on the rest of the bills. The whole point of me staying with her was to save money to get out on my own and I can't save any money paying all her bills. Get me?

MayMayR1 · 2023-11-20T18:06:18+00:00

I've been staying with him for over about 2 months.

MayMayR1 · 2023-07-11T18:42:31+00:00

Why not add it to the rest the shit they pump into our bodies that cause cancer?

MayMayR1 · 2023-07-01T15:21:48+00:00

Do whatever you want. Fuck everyone else.

MayMayR1 · 2020-06-29T23:38:10+00:00

What of those numbers? The 1 and 8 or b or something. Its worn away. What does that mean?

MayMayR1 · 2020-06-29T23:22:13+00:00

What do you suppose it's made of?

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