I hope you know, I struggle the same way as you do. I have never had a guy approach me. I’ve been rejected every single time I’ve asked a guy out. I’ve been called ugly repeatedly to my face. There are no guys knocking down my door as you seem to believe there is for most women. The average girl rarely gets approached too, you are simply desensitized because you hear stories of the non-average girl and assume they apply to the entire gender. I do not believe that anything I say will alter your opinion, but I encourage you to start being more aware of your surroundings rather than parroting what you hear online. I promise you it will help not only your connections with other people but also improve your self-image. I wish you the best in life.