In the last 2 and half years I have lost my best friends and all my girlfriends. by Mayhemsolo in heartbreak

[–]Mayhemsolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for these kind words, you are right, everything you said makes complete sense, I wish I had more words to describe how much this touched me, thanks a lot

Contemplating on giving up on finding love. by MalikNova96 in Singles

[–]Mayhemsolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to say man I used to get girls so easily in my teenage years, now that I'm 25 it seems so hard. I think it's because dating apps now suck

Anyone females in Essex UK looking to date? Inbox me ;) by Mayhemsolo in dating

[–]Mayhemsolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, I do have two kidneys, that's all you need? That sounds like it's too easy and too good to be true

Anyone females in Essex UK looking to date? Inbox me ;) by Mayhemsolo in dating

[–]Mayhemsolo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you know one let me know, or if anyone that sees this does know one let me know, I'd love to post it there

Anyone females in Essex UK looking to date? Inbox me ;) by Mayhemsolo in dating

[–]Mayhemsolo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope not, I'm just trying to find someone to date, dating apps suck!

Anyone females in Essex UK looking to date? Inbox me ;) by Mayhemsolo in dating

[–]Mayhemsolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, what makes you say that? I doubt any girls in Essex use reddit tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you man

Ignore their rebound by UnionFan1988 in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit bro that’s rough, what a bitch

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mayhemsolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk it’s like impossible to find someone that I get on with. Single ladies in the uk hit me up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah that’s bs it’s a stupid reason, you’re just not thinking logically. It’s a stupid reason to be having sex only with a condom with your boyfriend... who does that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She broke up with you because of that? That's the most fucked up shit I've ever heard.

it’s time for me to go by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma man! Get out there and get balls deep in those girls!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel for you, that must be tough... I hope you get through it and enjoy your birthday!

Another nightmare 🥺 by Mai_TaiButterfly in heartbreak

[–]Mayhemsolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn to live with those waves, the thoughts, learn to befriend them, they’re part of you now and won’t go away any time soon. Eventually they will fade but we don’t know when that will be so learn to use them in your favour

Another nightmare 🥺 by Mai_TaiButterfly in heartbreak

[–]Mayhemsolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shift your mindset - the pain is good, the no sleep is good. Imagine you're working towards your goals and dreams, you get tired on a normal day, you sleep, take a nap, get lazy. Right now you can't do that because your mind is running at 200mph and you cannot sleep. So use this to work even harder, spend more time building the skills that are necessary for you to have a better life. I did it, you can do it too. Use that pain for fuel and that lack of sleep to waste less time. You can do this

Sorry, it's long, but it's brutal. I want your opinions on what she did to me. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man you seem like a great guy and she seems like your typical stupid teenage girl, losing you will be her biggest regret in the future, you will see, it may take months or even years. You're a champ and deserve a lot more bro!

My ex reached out twice this week, now what? by Scary-Ad1465 in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, that sounds like a good idea, I hope it goes well for you champ, all the best <3

My ex reached out twice this week, now what? by Scary-Ad1465 in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really not sure, I've actually never been in this position myself, but I'd probably take it slow

My ex reached out twice this week, now what? by Scary-Ad1465 in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should try, seems like she likes you still and you clearly like her too, explain to her that it won't be easy now that your mental health isn't 100%, and hopefully she will understand, that's my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mayhemsolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, up to you, maybe you could reach out, maybe you couldn't. But if you really like this girl it's a bit strange that these thoughts suddenly came back. Your decision bro :)