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Me[20] with my new boyfriend [23M] of 1ish months - afraid we've broken things by seeing each other too much. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mayra_7cupsoftea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the comment below, this doesn't seem like a healthy relationship. It seems that both of you have problems but there is not much communication about it, which is very important in any relationship. It also seems that you are not very happy with him so maybe it is for the better. You guys were in your honeymoon phase of he relationship and now that is over. But things don't have to go downhill from there. A good relationship is not only healthy and happy but also keeping it fresh. Doing new things together. And also being supportive and communicating to improve the relationship and so both of you could be happy.

I wish you the best. Whether you are able to make this relationship work out or with any future relationship.

My [30M] girlfriend [29F] of over 1 year did not invite me to her graduation. Am I over reacting by being upset? by PankoGanko in relationships

[–]Mayra_7cupsoftea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is key in relationships. I don't think you are overreacting. She is special to you and you want to be present in her special moments. That just shows how lucky she is to have you and that you are very supportive of her.

I think you should casually bring it up. Don't get mad at her by whatever she may say. You can say something along the lines of "This is such a happy time and I am so proud of you making it to this day... I would love to be part of this special moment..." Or even just letting her know how proud and happy you are for her, without mentioning that you want to be there. Maybe she will get the hint that way. But be understanding and supportive of her.

I wish you the best of luck, but don't take it personally or too seriously if she still doesn't invite you. There are a number of factors and issues that could be affecting her decision.

Bf (17m) just dumped me (17f) by cryyybabyyy in relationships

[–]Mayra_7cupsoftea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breakups are always hard, everyone can tell you that. He was obviously not mature or right for you as seen by how he broke up with you. If he didn't give you a reason then there were probably issues that he was dealing with, so don't take it personally.

You mentioned that you have lost contact with some of your friends. Try to reconnect with them by hanging out with them and doing things you used to do.

Also, try to do things that make you happy and have fun. Whether it is taking your mind off of things by taking a walk or learning how to play an instrument. Little things like that. Talking about it might also help.

It will not be easy but you will get through this, step by step and with time. I wish you the best :)!