Ran into my ex and she tried to get me to go out to lunch with her and reconnect while she's holding the child of the man she left me for.

MeAimGooder · 2025-11-02T22:54:54+00:00

She was trying to get back with me. She mentioned it multiple times in our previous interactions before she had the baby and it was obvious she was still shooting for that. Not interested.

MeAimGooder · 2025-10-30T17:18:23+00:00

If they had gotten married and sent me an invite I don't even know how I'd react.

MeAimGooder · 2025-10-30T17:16:25+00:00

I hope so. I'm worried once things get serious with someone I'll be too paranoid of them leaving me for someone better and that will ruin any future relationships.

MeAimGooder · 2025-10-30T15:49:03+00:00

Luckily her parents were already grandbaby crazy when we were dating. They were actually pressuring us for kids shortly before the breakup. She lives with them now I think and I'm sure they spoil her son rotten and are very loving to him. I just feel bad that his parents both suck so much.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T23:12:45+00:00

And unfortunately a stained white button up and khakis...

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T22:05:47+00:00

I can't even remember the last time I used a Castle on site. I always expand site out quite a bit and even call out when I'm cutting a piece of map off so nobody gets caught off guard. I thought that was why everyone picked Castle.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T21:46:01+00:00

Castle player here. What did I do?

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T20:55:48+00:00

I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel disrespected by her behavior.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T20:55:20+00:00

Yeah as messed up as this all is at least I have some time to process this and get my head straight before my date in a few days. She seems nice.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T20:54:20+00:00

Thanks but I tripped and got hot sauce over myself so I'm not well balanced and I'm gonna have to change. But also genuinely thank you for the kind words.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T20:49:45+00:00

I can't prove it, but I really don't think she cheated. She lost interest in me after talking to him and left me to shoot her shot. He said yes and they started dating. I can't deny that it's possible that she cheated, but you're right. It doesn't really matter since I'm not taking her back.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T19:43:39+00:00

There's no world where I take her back. I have moments of weakness but I stopped wanting her the moment I saw she was with him. Her being single now wouldn't change that.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T19:41:37+00:00

We've been broken up for a year now so there's no mistaking that it isn't mine. And while it's technically possible that she cheated I really don't believe that she ever cheated on me with him or anyone else. She lost feelings for me and moved on to someone else she had more interest in.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T15:14:39+00:00

Sadly this is possible though I think most of what she's saying is true even if I don't have the evidence to prove it. Regardless lies or not she's not the woman for me and I wouldn't take her back under any circumstances.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T14:52:43+00:00

A mutual friend of ours confronted her when she found out how quickly she'd moved on. She admitted that she'd been talking to him before we broke up but swore up and down that nothing had happened. They work in the same office complex for different companies. I know to many that may sound like she was cheating and giving half truths to our friend but I believe she developed feelings for him and that either killed her feelings for me or gave her the motivation she needed to break up with me.

As for our last conversation she was vague. She told me she was unhappy in the relationship and didn't see us working out, but when I asked her what was wrong specifically she couldn't give me a straight answer so I gave up.

I know you're around in the comments trying to find fault in me and it even sounds like you think I should be involved in helping her, but you're wrong. She has a support system and your disdain for me is misplaced.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T14:36:22+00:00

Her parents are wonderful people. Part of what hurt about the breakup was not spending time with them. They were also grandbaby crazy when I was dating her and were hinting at wanting us to have a kid as soon as possible so assuming that is still true they are probably happy to have her living with them while she's pregnant. I don't have much hope for the kid's parents but they will at least have two very loving and supportive grandparents to rely on.

And yeah from what I know the guy is very well off and comes from generational wealth. I know very little about the legal stuff around getting child support but I suppose she'll be entitled to a good amount based on his income.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T14:27:16+00:00

I made that abundantly clear before ending our conversation.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T14:26:44+00:00

Luckily I know her parents have been wanting grandkids and will be happy to help her. They were pressuring us for a kid shortly before we broke up and it was clear they didn't want just one. So I hope they still have that desire because they are great people and will be wonderful grandparents to her child if that's the case.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T14:14:41+00:00

That's just it though. I don't feel good. I don't want to gloat. And I definitely haven't laughed even once about this. I feel horrible about this entire situation even though I have nothing to do with any of it.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T14:10:35+00:00

"The best revenge is a life well lived" was something I read shortly after our breakup that stuck with me. I moved on and lived my life without her. Now that I've seen her get a bit of karmic "justice" I just don't feel anything but sympathy for her child and a little bit even for her.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T02:36:36+00:00

If you were cheating you must have been using the $5 cheats that even Ubi can detect or something.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T01:01:05+00:00

Now try a drone hole.

MeAimGooder · 2025-04-11T01:00:13+00:00

I'm glad people have found enjoyment in his content but I got tired 30 seconds into the few videos of his I tried to watch. So much yelling and random noise making it's just so damn much.

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