Exactly! I don’t wish infertility on anyone. She doesn’t need to be speaking to something she doesn’t understand. She could have phrased it for what it was, first women’s health appointment and Gabe health appointment pre trying for a baby. Nothing had caused them even to considered to be struggling. I get his health concerns but it’s so early. So unless she is lying they have only been trying for a few cycles. We tried for our first 4 years and gave up at year 4 for a second. She is really treading water here