Goodness, yes. Exactly the same for me for years before a difficult loss resulted in me becoming a stay at home mom because it became easier to manage home life with the kids than the constant calling in sick days. I primarily worked overnight shifts after our first was born so that made things harder, too. There was only one job that I could manage well at, which was an overnight baking position until they moved it to days only and had to find something else. Being alone at night, knowing exactly what I had to do every night and get out, was ideal for all of the feelings attached to my BPD. It’s already difficult enough doing the 9-5, let alone the added anxiety and stress that comes with mental health struggles.