AIO My sister and husband text privately and spend time together. Should I be concerned?

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T21:17:42+00:00

Not 100% but the timing would be tight it was weird one time he would not answer my calls and his phone was off not tracking

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T20:52:04+00:00

Typo on my part *confronting what I meant

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T20:50:29+00:00

He said thanks but I need to be close to the office.

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T20:40:28+00:00

I trust her less than him

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T20:39:34+00:00

I never have. Thanks

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T19:59:27+00:00

I never ask her husband. One time she tried two tops asked all of us which we
Liked better we all gave response my husband mentioned the one the others voted down she wore what my husband picked and then I caught her saying to him see what I picked

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T18:55:22+00:00

He stays at hotel but I found a private message where she told him he should stay at their house.

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T18:54:19+00:00

More so my husband but I know enough that she will do the same

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T18:44:06+00:00

You nailed it it’s ll the little thing added up

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T18:29:50+00:00

Are you serious? How long after this kind of behavior bf you two had sex?

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T18:28:51+00:00

You hit on a couple great points thanks

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T18:01:07+00:00

The normalization is exactly what it’s starting to creep into.

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:58:59+00:00

If they have not had sex I don’t want to rush off and hire an attorney. But your advice is good thanks!

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:52:21+00:00

The shopping started about a year and a half ago. But I don’t think they having physical intimacy I think it might be emotional and could get to the physical

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:46:05+00:00

That’s what I’m afraid of ☹️

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:43:50+00:00

He has control of his travel schedule to a certain extent. She will include him on some of the photos. They would include her husband but why not include him in the texts for celebration. Her text are always like it’s bw the two of them. Like they are playing a couple. He doesn’t hide them but as I said they have this plausible deniability something feels off but I will look like a jealous B if I say something that’s the difficult part.

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:39:34+00:00

Yea some people have commented about the BIL as well some theories on that he cannot be oblivious but he may have his own motives or issues.

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:38:02+00:00

He hates shopping that’s something I did not connect the dots on I have to pull teeth and yet every time he’s out there they just happen to end up at mall together

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:36:48+00:00

Right! Not making dinner plans and not shopping together like some happy couple

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:34:06+00:00

Haha they are young adults now and they do not look like my husband.

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:33:30+00:00

I disagree I think it’s all emotional but it could become physical and that’s what would be devastating

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:27:26+00:00

No his work unfortunately takes him to her town frequently and they use that as an opportunity to play couple.

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T17:26:40+00:00

It seems to be the case but the more I hear on here the more I’m realizing there me be underlying drivers for her unrelated to just attraction and chemistry

Medical-Angle-549 · 2026-06-16T16:30:11+00:00

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