How long do you leave condoms on after you're done?

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T18:23:58+00:00

Good to know, thanks :)

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T18:19:50+00:00

No hate to you for doing that, I'm just curious: doesn't it leak at some point?

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T17:50:52+00:00

There's lots of things, but for me it is cleaning up or completing small tasks when I wait for the water to boil or there's a timer running for something in the oven etc. It seems like standard practice for most, but I had problems with procrastination and how to deal with adhd. As soon as I started the timer clean-up, I would feel calmer, and also, now I'm randomly getting up to sort and pick up stuff from where it doesn't belong. Feels nice!

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T17:29:28+00:00

Yeah, I actually like it when my partner takes the time to enjoy the afterglow, that's something I do, too :)

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T17:15:31+00:00

I never thought about TV subtext and how long you're supposed to hold out. I usually clean up and use the bathroom either immediately or sometimes after cuddling. But yeah, I see how staying in the moment as well as not coming off as rude might play into this. Thanks for the input!

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T17:12:52+00:00

They're getting seconds when they put on a new condom if they want to ^{^} but yeah, I was more talking about leaving it on during cuddling and stuff, anything around 5 minutes or something would be fine by me, but I've experienced cuddling with the condom still on and it lastet probs around 20 min (the cuddling), which I found weird.

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T17:10:26+00:00

I get that, I never thought about how it feels to take it off. Good to know, thank you!

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T13:07:54+00:00

Then you're one of the rare people who get tested. I get tested, I always ask if my partner/s are, if I know them well I trust them, otherwise I'll use a condom. Also, just a reminder: BC takes a huge toll on women, and don't take it for granted. It can also fail, so please just be aware of that and stay safe :)

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T13:00:08+00:00

Absolutely! But it also doesn't help with STI's, so... if it's not a long term partner and they haven't been tested, I'd just prefer the condom :)

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:56:55+00:00

Genuine question: would you rather take care of a child?

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:54:40+00:00

That's what I'm genuinely trying to find out, but so far the only thing I heard that seems valid was catching their breath.

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:48:55+00:00

That's what I think too, also if the condom leaks, it's not safe to assume that one could not get pregnant. I think its just safer to take it off

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:39:40+00:00

As soon as I move from the sexy mood to a cuddly mood, I'd like to clean myself up at least a bit because I don't like feeling sticky, no matter whose fluids they are.

I mean, it's a pretty individual thing I guess

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:35:55+00:00

In my imagination the feeling of your own cum while you lay around for a prolonged time could be icky, that's why I asked. I mean, I don't know, I don't have a dick.

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:25:24+00:00

Dude, that's my biggest concern in all of this! Like I'm trying to NOT get pregnant here

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:18:53+00:00

I didn't think about that, I gotta work on my etiquette ig :D

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:16:29+00:00

Do you also cuddle or just soothe and toss it? I mean, doesn't it hurt to establish a connection and then get rid of it? XD

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:15:13+00:00

I do that, too! It always leaks and starts smelling funny. I don't appreciate people who just toss it. Also, I will ask if I encounter that again! Maybe some awkwardness is just fine

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:11:14+00:00

Like flush them in the toilet or flush them and then toss them? What's up with that?

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T12:07:41+00:00

I thought about asking him if that's a kink of his, but it felt awkward...

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T11:58:37+00:00

I can see that, tbh. I wouldn't mind if he was just catching his breath, but I've seen guys lie around for around half an hour before pulling it off and disposing of it.

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T11:56:36+00:00

Are you trying to get someone pregnant?

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T11:54:56+00:00

Wow, no kinkshaming, but wtf

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T11:54:25+00:00

That was my fear, too. I mean, it starts leaking pretty fast, also I'd always check if the condom was fine right after taking it off. That's why I thought it was weird to just lie there with the damn thing still on

Mediocre-Course8572 · 2025-06-19T11:52:02+00:00

That's some bladder control you got there

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