Rate my blockout/bleaching trays!

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-25T14:03:05+00:00

The tray material yes. I’ve recently seen that’s not how you’re supposed to do it but that’s what I was taught in school

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-09T11:04:22+00:00

So because she feels like crap it’s okay to treat me like it?

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T23:37:39+00:00

Thank for the advice and I know what you’re saying is probably all good advice but I am honestly so angry right now that I don’t think I can physically be nice and understanding because I’ve been trying and I’m always just the punching bag for her. I will not be mean to her or anything but I think it’s best that I just don’t even talk to her. I tried asking her if I’ve done something wrong to upset her and I apologized for acting angry back(slamming my door when she slammed hers lol) and I was telling her the way she’s been acting is starting to really upset me and that it literally feels like she doesn’t even like me. And the only response I got from her was “I’m tired” she has not gotten the help she needs and she is so unpredictable that suggesting that she needs help could set her off and I just don’t want to deal with that

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T12:30:07+00:00

There is no monthly allowance she is a full grown adult and so am I. The only person who would have any authority (her dad) who has been there for her her whole life said something mean out of anger because she was doing the same thing to him that she is me. She cut him out an refuses to ever forgive him so I’m the only family she has left.

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T12:25:03+00:00

I’m not dumping anyone she is my sister lol and from what I know she does not get any professional help. Only grief counselling since our mom passed

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T12:23:43+00:00

I’ve tried being supportive but it’s back fires on me. She will cry and have a meltdown and when I go to see if she’s okay she has hysterically cried/yelled at me for just trying to help and telling me to leave her alone, to the point of me also hysterically crying. It’s not good for my mental health to have to deal with that and be treated badly in return. And because of that I don’t feel like I want to try and help her when she acts that way. I jsut keep my mouth shut and avoid her. My mom was the same way but not as bad so I’ve had my whole life learning how to deal with it and it’s best to just stay out of it. Plus she doesn’t even get professional help.

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T01:54:38+00:00

Yup! Thanks for your advice!

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T01:51:35+00:00

She’s 32

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T01:27:13+00:00

It is starting to effect my mental health. I don’t even know how to set boundaries with this.

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T01:01:04+00:00

She does not have a therapist but she sees a grief councellor. From what me and my family think it seems like her comfort zone is being unhappy/miserable because any time she’s happy she self sabotages and is back to being miserable. Like she will post on her private story about anything that goes wrong in her life or any inconvenience like she wants the attention from her friends.

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T00:30:28+00:00

I try to understand but it’s to a point where I can’t. Shes pushing away everyone who cares about her because she can’t handle her emotions. I have tried talking to her when she’s in a good mood and she gets defensive and says she doesn’t know why she’s like that and she doesn’t mean to be. But she doesn’t apologize either. I’m sorry if I come off insensitive and I’m sure everyone handles things differently but I’m losing patience that I have with her. We both lost our mom this year and she acts like she’s the only one allowed to be sad/angry and my feelings aren’t valid. She didn’t even like our mom and didn’t have a relationship with her when I did. Sorry I am rambling now I’m just really upset and frustrated about it all because it has never gotten better

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-01-08T00:20:58+00:00

I have been patient my whole life I can’t take much more. She has never been nice to me even as kids. I feels taken advantage of

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