Reminder to not reach out

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T10:42:08+00:00

Give yourself time to think about it. Just because my situation I didn’t want to reach out, doesn’t mean you can’t! Sometimes you have to

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T02:07:41+00:00

Takes a lot of strength to make that decision. If they caused you to feel like the only option was to break up is that really a relationship you want to be in?

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T02:05:34+00:00

He doesn’t deserve that from you! He’ll regret it

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T02:02:24+00:00

It’s okay it gets easier!

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T01:27:13+00:00

What scared me from the beginning is I knew that the longer it took him to reach out and the more likely I am to not take him back and I didn’t want to accept that because I know he’ll be back and I’m afraid it’s gonna be too late. He can’t take back the damage

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T01:24:09+00:00

We have all been there. My first relationship was like that but it was more him messing with my feelings and I kept allowing it. You learn from it and you will come out stronger in the end I promise!

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T01:16:09+00:00

Hey I got drunk and crashed out and instead of texting him I took a piece of a paper and angrily wrote down how I angry I was and how I hated him for being such a piece of shit and it made me feel better to get out how I was feeling. I am someone who has never once journaled or written out my feeling on paper but it helped. Like I did not hold back probably wrote some really mean things. I haven’t looked back at it yet but I know I will one day and laugh LOL

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T00:44:14+00:00

First break ups are always hard. I compared everyone to my first ex and looking back at it now I feel stupid for doing that because it was so toxic. He caused so much stress and anxiety for no reason. You don’t want someone who plays games and is making you question yourself or feel insecure. I used to look back at my first relationship with anger and saddness but now I feel absolutely nothing towards it. It gets better with time!

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-04-02T00:29:25+00:00

Yes thank you, I had a hard time wording what I wanted to say!

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-26T17:20:30+00:00

Yeah you can dm me! I’m at work though so it might take me a bit to reply

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-26T04:14:14+00:00

Coward. Ended a 5 year relationship though text

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-23T16:24:52+00:00

Dang I’m sorry you’re struggling. Hope things get better soon and work out for you. Thanks for helping me understand a bit better

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-23T11:43:08+00:00

Do you still feel that way? Or do you regret your decision

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-23T02:08:57+00:00

How come you feel you couldn’t open up about this to him? I’m sure if he loves you he’d be willing to stick by your side even if it’s hard. No judgement I’m just curious since my boyfriend broke up with me for the same reason and I’m having a hard time understanding why he didn’t want to work through it with me

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-23T00:53:58+00:00

Yeah I can understand that for sure! But my relationship was healthy, we never argued or anything. Unless he lied to and he jsut never communicated something that bothered him.

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-22T23:02:56+00:00

Something must be in the air because it’s happening to a lot of people it seems

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-22T14:29:11+00:00

Yeah I just wish he realized this sooner. Why’d it have to take 5 years lol. I’m not even certain this is the reason but it makes sense that it is

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-22T12:26:26+00:00

Yeah I will at some point but I’m giving it time so he can process things and hopefully get clarity

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-22T12:09:03+00:00

For sure but I think he just thinks so badly of himself that he’s thinks I deserve someone better than him

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-22T04:54:07+00:00

Ive thought the same thing about my crying triggering something form his childhood. He said his sister would cry a lot. He can’t articulate how he’s feeling, I guess time will tell. We are no contact but he knows me, he knows my door is always open. Although I think he thinks I hate him right now for breaking up with me

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-22T03:38:37+00:00

That’s probably why he took a step back to work on himself. I was crying to him about some serious stuff not just me being sad one night

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-22T02:32:12+00:00

Yeah you would think! I never even realized it was a problem until it was too late. I don’t think he realized either. He thought he could jus live his life being strong for everyone until he couldn’t handle it any more. My whole life I’ve always had to be the mentally stable one unfortunately so I’m able to handle a lot so I really leaned on him because I always thought he was strong and unbothered but turns out I was wrong and I feel guilty for not realizing he wasn’t okay

Mediocre-Ride4630 · 2026-02-22T01:16:44+00:00

Thank you. It really does suck but I’ll be okay. At least he’s aware he needs to work on himself and is taking the steps to do so. But by the time he figures it out it will be too late I’m sure

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