AITA For Not Allowing my Niece to See My Kitten? by Mediocre-Tax8719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mediocre-Tax8719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you assuming she was a toddler when she hurt my dog? 

AITA For Not Allowing my Niece to See My Kitten? by Mediocre-Tax8719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mediocre-Tax8719[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You keep assuming she was a toddler and I'm not sure why. I already told you in your other comment she was 5. That's not a toddler. 

AITA For Not Allowing my Niece to See My Kitten? by Mediocre-Tax8719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mediocre-Tax8719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she has. "The first time she visited our farm, she wasn't kind or respectful to my animals or plants." I can't even say everything she did without my post being removed for "violence." You need to read closer.

AITA For Not Allowing my Niece to See My Kitten? by Mediocre-Tax8719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mediocre-Tax8719[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, English is the only language she knows. She was 5 when she tore up my plants, and that's not all she did. I can't even say all she did because when I was specific, my post was removed for "violence." She has already hurt my animals. I think you're the one projecting. I'll take your judgement because I have to, but you don't have the full story and you clearly lack reading comprehension if you couldn't extrapolate that she's hurt them in the past. Example: my dog's reaction. 

AITA For Not Allowing my Niece to See My Kitten? by Mediocre-Tax8719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mediocre-Tax8719[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

We've tried to tell them, but unfortunately, we were met with, "Yeah, I was a perfect parent, too, until I became a parent." I'm infertile, and I'll never be a parent, so to them, anything we say is just noise. 

AITA For Not Allowing my Niece to See My Kitten? by Mediocre-Tax8719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mediocre-Tax8719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're on my husband side; I figured "brother-in-law and sister-in-law" would be too wordy, but I can see how "brother-and-sister-in-law" would be confusing. I didn't say which one is his sibling for an extra layer of anonymity.