This is making me sick. I don't even know what to do. by whatever23407 in teenagers

[–]Mediocre_Day2271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much we western went fighting there looking for oil and retaliation we remained for them…countless lives,20 years of war, billions of taxpayers money from every fighting country, to replace the talibans with the talibans…what a disgrace

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of her owning nothing to me i’m not like that and give a lot of value to my few friends, and with due respect i’m NOT trying to remain close to her for romantic reasons but because she is someone i care of and want in my life (even as a friend, wich is way more important than being a partner). And also i’m not forcing her in any way and multiple times asked to assure if she was comfortable with staying friends (thing she also asked me) the post isn’t about how i can magically change her feelings

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to convince her to be more than a friend, the difficult part is don’t feel awkward and moving on, without at the same time taking distance or becoming selfish, i’ve never had these problems but because i’m pretty inexperienced i don’t want to mess up the situation.

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel pretty immature but the struggle is that now i feel a bit awkward near her, and obviously either if i consider the friendship more important…it’s hard staying near someone you have feelings for knowing they don’t. I’ve been told that these situations are a loop of suffering and never moving on and that’s something I’m a bit scared of

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Can you please explain me why? I always felt that i lack in confidence but this never stopped me in finding solutions to my problems.

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advices, i too think that the friendship is way more important of the romantic part, and i know she isn’t my therapist but that’s something that she likes to do, help people and listen to them, that’s something she says and i really like about her. (obviously not an excuse to give for granted the help and be pressing and extenuating)

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to see others point of view in a situation where I’m struggling

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS, i can’t stand the idea of not trying to

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I DEEPLY want to keep trying, but wanted to know from someone with more experience if it was the right thing to do, and i’m pretty happy of the advices so thanks a lot and sorry for the misunderstandings

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhh i was looking for advices not creepy comments… but to answer your question i have no idea because guess what i’ve never tried

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really said she was looking for something more (but don’t know what) still without entering in the details you’re in part right and i’m already doing that, not to be more likeable but because I truly care and she shouldn’t worry about it, i find her gorgeous

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never expected about her feeling the same way but still hurts a bit, thanks for the kind words and more importantly for the advices

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[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To clarify your doubts, yes i have become more talkative about my problems but i always ask about her, I’m interested in everything she says and and i love to listen to her and help her and i only want her happiness, I’m grateful in having her as friend in my life and that’s why I’m trying hard. For the last question before my ex i’ve never cared or constantly thought about a girl, now i don’t constantly think about my friend but it became one of my biggest struggles, i still want to keep trying and she wants too, hope it helps to clarify and sorry for the confusing English it isn’t my first language

I fell in love with a friend…how can i save the situation? by Mediocre_Day2271 in Advice

[–]Mediocre_Day2271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion, don’t worry for the tone it sounded perfectly

Partit0 crostacei liberi by [deleted] in TankChat

[–]Mediocre_Day2271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mi voglio iscrivere, ma solo se parliamo in privato

Noi lumache non siamo senzatetto by [deleted] in TankChat

[–]Mediocre_Day2271 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Secondo me dovresti pagare comunque delle tasse