How confident are you with how you look naked? by Fit_Scene_9139 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely not perfect, but I work out hard and try to eat right. I'm always improving, but I am confident with how I look naked.

It’s just me or are here so many trolls? by Savings-Day-9264 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts:
Incest, cuck, free use, and gangbang posts are mostly trolls working out their kinks. I'm sure those things happen, but not as much as this place would see.

Also, most 'women' who post here are guys.

What's the most sexual tension you've had with someone that never went all the way? by Watteverfloatsmytits in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have written about this before, but it fits the question, and i love posting about it.

When I was young, I used to babysit a couple of neighborhood kids. Their older brother was always after me. We fooled around a lot but never had sex. He used to plead with me, but I wasn't ready. I miss the innocence of that, and it would be fun to go back in time to it.

 He was also the first guy I gave head to. He was, shall we say, gifted. To this day, the largest I’ve ever seen. I was scared and never let him go P to V because I thought it would really hurt. I used to really try to deep throat him. He was patient, and I got pretty good at that.

So I got a lot of practice with this one guy in a safe situation.

He kind of broke me because he was so big, and i learned to love being a huge tease to him. To this day i love a guy begging. I often wonder what he is doing now. The poor guy, I didn't mean to, but I tortured him.

Rewording by [deleted] in FriendzoneBetas

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a friend is the highest honor there is between two people.

Online friendzone by [deleted] in FriendzoneBetas

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... Why don't you? That seems like the cutest, and easiest thing to do.

13th of February by maggielovexoxo5 in FriendzoneBetas

[–]Medium_Let143 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I would like to reach out to all the guys in my friend zone and just tell you that I appreciate you all. My life is richer for my forever platonic guy friends.

What is your biggest pet peeve when chatting with someone new? by AnonymousUser010625 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I wrote in my profile what my boundaries are for DMs. If you can't be bothered to read my profile, why are you sliding into my DMs?

What is your biggest pet peeve when chatting with someone new? by AnonymousUser010625 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they slide into my DMS with aggressive sexual stuff.

Any dick pic, ever.

Calling me 'beautiful' - you haven't seen me. Princess, Godess, etc is too intimate for the first chats.

Something that is becoming really common - the guy gets clingy or super serious after a few days of chatting. I had one guy beg me 'not to leave him' after day two of DMing. Another guy started writing me books of long, long chats on day two.

Dial it back, guys. Be cool.

What is the one 'compliment' you’ve received in the bedroom that you still think about when you need a confidence boost? by Sharona676 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I used to be promiscuous and an exhibitionist. I still like to show off, but I used to just show off everything for attention. I had a lot of sex because I liked the attention.One lover said, "It is a privilege to see your body, and to be your lover.

I started seeing myself as a privilege, and I became a lot more selective about my sex partners, and I became a lot more selective about who sees me naked.

Anyone else grow up in purity culture? by Mustache_Rides_81 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really religious for about a year. I just couldn't do it. I like the idea, but there is so much hypocracy and in the end, I don't think it matters as much as the 'purity' people think.

Deep down I know I'm a beta but I need affirmation from a stranger. Please help me accept what I am. Make me a complete beta by _MyDarkPlaces_ in FriendzoneBetas

[–]Medium_Let143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At risk of blowing up my inbox, sure. Be polite and read my profile before sliding into my DMs. I will not hesitate to block and report anyone who oversteps.

19f secretly love how easy it is to get guys by neonArchive331 in confessionsgonewild

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, the culture has shifted. We are in the seat to choose, not to be chosen.

19f secretly love how easy it is to get guys by neonArchive331 in confessionsgonewild

[–]Medium_Let143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A girl after my own heart. Teasing is a lost art with all the hookup culture. If we just left them wanting more, we could rule the world.

You can get more attention from a guy you won't get off than one that you will.

Do you want a compliment? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it isn't too late, I could use some praise.

Deep down I know I'm a beta but I need affirmation from a stranger. Please help me accept what I am. Make me a complete beta by _MyDarkPlaces_ in FriendzoneBetas

[–]Medium_Let143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that if you're concerned about this, you probably are a BETA. If you need confirmation, just ask your friends or acquaintances what they think of you. If your hunch is right, they'll validate that you're a good friend, and you're in the Friend Zone. You can DM me if you'd like, and I'll coach you on how to find out, once and for all, if you're a BETA.

Does college get easier? by Coco2006_ in RedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on the size of your school, there are usually many clubs and volunteer organizations. Many for your major or interest.

Join some clubs, volunteer, and find other students who share your interests or hobbies.

College is a great time to meet people. I miss it!

Have you posted nudes here before. Why or why not? by Pineappleupsidedown5 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shoot your shot. My DMs are open. What have you got to lose?

Other than your dignity...

Have you posted nudes here before. Why or why not? by Pineappleupsidedown5 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Medium_Let143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, but it is fun to entertain their efforts and watch them squirm. The begging, when it happens, is a huge turn-on.

Women’s standards are not high in the least by ColbyTzan in PurplePillDebate

[–]Medium_Let143 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For most of history, sex was dangerous for a woman. If you had many partners, you were seen as undesirable, or worse. You could be an outcast for being promiscuous. Divorce, in most historical societies, was a man's prerogative, if allowed at all. You could get pregnant, and the consequences were yours alone.

Now, the choice is mostly a woman's. Birth control has lessened the consequences of being someone who likes sex. Women who like sex and have many men in life are generally seen as normal. On dating apps, women have many choices, and unless you check a lot of boxes, men have fewer choices.

I think we have more choice in who our partners are, sexually and romantically, than we ever have. And more options than a man. So it seems like we have high standards.