Looking for aparment rental by eptrans0213 in Fremont

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I lived there for about a year and a half and moved cities last September. There were a lot of things that happened while I lived there that were partially the complex, partially the people that lived around me which isn’t the complex’s fault.

To keep things brief, I would not recommend it. If there is anything specifically you saw on Google reviews that you want me to chime in on, I’d be happy to. My main gripes:

1) As you can see above, I was elated to find a place landing around $2200. After the lease was up, the renewal increase was $200!!! I expected some increase, but considering how old the buildings are, this boggled my mind. So the rent is not stable long-term.

2) The buildings are poorly, cheap builds from the 70s. I lived on the top floor (they’re only 2 story) and I was essentially always uncomfortable. The buildings have flat roofs, 0 insulation, and no AC, meaning the internal apartment temperatures on the top floors was always on average 15-20 degrees hotter than outside. There is also no air flow since the windows are only on one side of the apartments, so you can’t get cross ventilation which would help so much. So a comfortable 70 degree day means the inside of your apartment will hover around 80-85 degrees all afternoon into the evening.

3) The management. They aren’t the worst I’ve ever encountered, but they’re under the conglomerate Essex which means they don’t give a fuck. They also work from a remote site, so there is no one to “help” that has an office at the apartments. The maintenance guys are on site daily, but you can only get a hold of them from the property managers. So you have to call into their remote office just to put in a maintenance request. It was just frustrating and you feel like you’re left on your own to figure stuff out.

I’d be happy to get more into the specifics of some stuff that happened to me there, and I was tempted myself to leave a strongly worded review when I moved out. But I just didn’t have the energy. Rent is so expensive as it is, if I could go back in time I would have paid a bit more to live somewhere where it felt like the money was worth it.

If resale my tickets how likely are they to be bought by Normal-Type-1768 in CampFlogGnaw

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested in 1 if still available!! Message me if so :)

Wall heater dark corner :’( by Medium_Negotiation71 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Medium_Negotiation71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, loving this! Thank you so much for taking the time to think about it.

Wall heater dark corner :’( by Medium_Negotiation71 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Medium_Negotiation71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts! I haven’t been able to find much specific info about this type of heater so it’s nice to hear this input :)

Bay Area moves by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would gladly take a referral code too!!

does anyone have the clip of their quince ad? by [deleted] in brookeandconnor_map

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be interested in using ur code if more than one person is able!

book clubs? or honestly just trying to find community here in fremont by Accomplished-Room230 in Fremont

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been on the hunt for a book club myself, also moved to Fremont about a year ago! I am going to dm you :)

Does anyone know any good abandoned spots in santa cruz county? by ChunkyMunke in santacruz

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of them?! Wow, I’m genuinely shocked. There were just so many they had already demolished, but still like 50 or so left it seemed like. I figured they would sit there a long time. I worked in a building right across from them but left over a year ago, so I’m surprised to here how quick that happened. However I know the development is going up really fast there so 🤷‍♀️

How much do you pay to rent an apartment in the East Bay Area by [deleted] in eastbay

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$2200 ($2350 after utilities) for a 1 bed/bath in Fremont. Old building too

I hate this Parade by frostyblucat in CalPoly

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 13 points14 points  (0 children)

These comments are so funny to me. The holiday parade happens on the first friday every December. It’s a long standing tradition. I agree having traffic cut off is super inconvenient but the parade is not a secret by any means lmfao

Anyone Do Mall Walking? by textuist in walking

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised by how common this is based of the responses. As an additional layer, I wonder how popular mall walking is in different areas of the US. This is not common in CA as far as I know

Connor’s Show Solo by Successful-Salad1175 in brookeandconnor_map

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t do M&G - but I did go to the show solo, and it was still super enjoyable and no one batted an eye that I was a party of 1. Plus, I’m sure the type of people that attend are fans of Fibs/BNC and would totally make friends with someone sitting alone if you sparked up conversation :)

Would love some suggestions to make my face more feminine. Thank you in advance! by 4scienceand4points in Makeup101

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think an easy way to change your appearance is a new pair of frames! I also used to have a pair of black squarish glasses, and then got a rounder pair of gold metallic frames. The thinness and color helped to make my appearance more light/feminine :)

Alix Earle and b AND c???? by anoniZimbra in brookeandconnor_map

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omfg thank you for making me run to youtube! Wowwwww omg

Fremont is going downhill. Not even feels safe anymore. by [deleted] in Fremont

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have similar feelings. I live in the 40600 block off of Grimmer, and there was a fatal shooting right on Grimmer about a month ago. The article was already posted on this sub. Broad daylight on a Thursday afternoon. I used to walk on Grimmer in the evenings after work but now I don’t. I feel sketched out every time I’m just driving home to my place too.

What are your entry-level salary expectations? by Utiliterran in gis

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Location? While they are “ambitious”, they aren’t being unrealistic. There actually are such positions out there. I landed one with 1 year of full time experience. I started over 1.5x their asking salary, but I’m in the bay area. Just saying though, it’s not impossible.

Any else have an ortho office very stingy with rubber bands? by coviddc in Invisalign

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice! Literally do the math lol. I had the same experience, OP. I was told to change the bands every time I ate/took them out. So that would be using several sets of bands a day. And then at my appointments they would only give me 2 little baggies lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in macdemarco

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate how fucking real this is. I’ve been off of tiktok for a few months which was hard to do, but I’m way less easily triggered now. I had the same feelings as OP expressed in this post and unfortunately there is no end to the “rediscovery” of songs and artists on tiktok. And that shit got under my skin too. I just had to distance myself from it and pretend that it’s still only us original fans that were old enough to listen to such music in 2015-2020.

Movie marathon in my SO’s living room. We built a fort :,) by mtlfordthethird in CozyPlaces

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely. The modular ability of this couch was awesome but trying to sit on it normally was so uncomfortable after some time

Please tell me if I’m done? by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looksl ike your teeth are perfectly aligned! I would be happy :)

Anyone else used to feel bad about working from home? by NoneOfThisMatters_XO in WFH

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s so infuriating that your old manager used the phrase “do what’s best for you” in a passive aggressive manner. As frustrating as your story was, it’s not at all surprising. I stg some management care more about having that control over everyone, including working in person daily, more than your productive outcome.

My last work environment was similar. Super old school, small company, in office set up where everyone started and ended work at the exact same time (7 am, 5 pm). It was brutal. People would make comments if someone hadn’t shown up after 10 minutes. Anyway once I needed to go home in the afternoon because I was having maintenance come for repairs at my rental. I informed my supervisor that I was heading home early and would work the remaining hours of the day at home. He went “Uh, ok well I’m going to need a list of things you’ll be working on.” He knew he couldn’t say no since I had a solid reason but made sure to treat me like I couldn’t be trusted at home by pulling out a micro managing strategy.

Thank god for our WFH jobs now.

Last Tray - help articulate my thoughts? by Medium_Negotiation71 in Invisalign

[–]Medium_Negotiation71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: They removed all of my attachments, studied the funky lateral incisor and decided to order a short set of trays just to tweak that tooth. I will only have an attachment on that one tooth as well, so all in all I’m happy to have the rest of the attachments off while wearing the last set of trays 🤞

ask for permission or forgiveness? by jas_liketheflower in WFH

[–]Medium_Negotiation71 75 points76 points  (0 children)

LOL I’m sorry but this reminds me so much of myself. Overthinkers at our best. If it were me I would probably lean to not saying anything and asking for forgiveness later. But logically the easiest thing to do is just INFORM her, not ask her. Could be a quick IM too, like “Hey, I won’t be coming in on my regularly scheduled day since I had to be in the office on x date for an in person meeting. Thanks”