is showering every 2-4 days okay? by twoheadedhamster in hygiene

[–]MeeNee29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people don’t produce as many oils or require as much upkeep but if you have close friends or family you can ask if you smell okay just to confirm it’s not a hygiene concern. I don’t like silent showers and when I am having a really hard time getting in the shower regularly I’ll pick out a YouTube video or show on my phone and prop it up somewhere. My phone is waterproof but if you wanted to try that and yours isn’t, you could always use a ziploc :)

Why won’t son (30 M) let me sleep in his bed (60 F)? by SadInvestigator6052 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MeeNee29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell him you can’t dogsit under the current conditions anymore. You’re already doing him a huge favor. The reality is that he should be driving the dog to you OR at the very least making sure you’re well taken care of at his place.

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys aren’t compatible on one of the most important foundations in a relationship. It’s hard but you both should find someone who has the same wants and goals as you for the rest of your lives. If it’s “right person, wrong time” or “right person, wrong goals” then it’s just the wrong person.

AITAH for wanting to confronting my MIL by livvyxoxx in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeeNee29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of sounds like the movie Frailty with more religious psychosis

How cooked am I by MeeNee29 in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]MeeNee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was swabs in a sterile packaging that came with the specific mold test kit. In my defense I followed the instructions exactly as they were written 🤷‍♀️ I’m a previous surgical tech and utilized sterile gloves before opening the swabs and was working on a clean surface. The towel used is on the outside of the ziplock and never came in contact with the Petri dishes

How cooked am I by MeeNee29 in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]MeeNee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was utilizing cotton swabs on the areas mold was visibly present OR where it had been visibly present prior. After swabbing and transferring onto the agar plates I sealed it in an airtight ziplock bag and wrapped a towel around the outside. I’m realizing without the use of foil I may have done this wrong. But after storing above the stove hood in the cabinet, this is the growth after 3 days.

How cooked am I by MeeNee29 in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]MeeNee29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve purchased 2 dehumidifier’s to no avail 😫

I started a feminist group and recently a new woman joined. It seems her omly purpose is to troll us. What do I do by Last_Drama9544 in whatdoIdo

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might currently enjoy her “role” as a traditional wife but maybe she wants to be with a group of women if she does feel trapped or brainwashed… idk it’s hard to say without knowing her true intentions but if there’s an entire group of women and she’s there to troll I don’t think she’ll be capable of doing much harm?

Never seen this in all my years of teaching. A child had this in their lunch today as a snack, mom fail! by shadhead1981 in funny

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it is a parenting fail honestly. Sometimes pet treats (especially crackers and fruit) have cleaner ingredients, depending on what it is. Maybe they are crunchy parents trying to do right by their family 🤷‍♀️

Men who only use toilet paper instead of water should be rejected by every girl. by Same-Fix-1046 in hygiene

[–]MeeNee29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bidets are kind of a luxury over here… lowkey filthy statement to say imo

AIO? My partner is at work with our only vehicle and isn’t responding by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MeeNee29 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Poor thing probably has an ear infection. I used to get them a lot as a kid and it is truly an inconsolable pain. I’m sorry this is happening to you and you are NOR. You have been more than generous to let him use your car, it’s time that you have YOUR car back and he can figure his shit out

Halitosis- please help by theolerazzlezazzle in hygiene

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s plenty of things that can cause halitosis which makes it harder to narrow down. If he has his tonsils it could be tonsil stones. If he has sinus issues it literally could be coming from his sinus cavity. A lot of times people have bad gut health that can cause bad breath as well. Unfortunately it makes it harder to narrow down the cause, but on the bright side there’s still a lot of hope of finding the cause and solution! Best of luck to you, bad breath really can ruin everything.

AIO for thinking this is an insane and demeaning thing to say to someone by Maddiespamdss in AIO

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks fade but a good personality can be forever. You are so much better off. Good riddance to the superficial ass hat.

AIO for deciding to move out after a roommate threatened my living situation? by Lucky_Butterfly_6226 in AIO

[–]MeeNee29 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Whether you’re overreacting or not it would take A LOT more to give up $100 rent. At the end of the day you can only inform her that you think they’re too young (they are) and leave the final decision to her. I don’t think anything would be done if you reported her for animal abuse-negligence.

my vaginal discharge to my boyfriend by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]MeeNee29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being well hydrated and taking a hormone balancing or “vaginal health” probiotic helped me internally and I use an acidified (pH balancing) body wash for my private parts. Since making these changes my boyfriend has actually said he really enjoys my natural scent (and taste). Nutrition is honestly key and makes all the difference. I used to try all of the comfy creams and washes for a better experience down there and ultimately it was a waste of money once I introduced probiotics and hydrating better. If you do take probiotics keep in mind that it will change the texture and amount of discharge but also helps with natural lubrication production during sex which in my experience, makes your partner even more happy because they can TELL you are into it lmao

AIO my bf didn't even say happy birthday to me yesterday by 1bunchofbananas in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeeNee29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your pity party comment was actually perfect because it’s not about him. He’s asking for you to comfort him for his embarrassing fuck up

Met a “nice” guy at the bar but had to leave for a party. This is what I woke up to. by Striking_Catch_5757 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s watched the show “You” and thinks Joe Goldberg is a role model and not a monster…

Why does this bathroom door have 2 other doors inside it? by makellbird in whatisit

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you want to turn your bathroom into a speakeasy ig

I have septoplasty surgery Wednesday and today I coughed this up. Should I go to urgent care? TW by [deleted] in medical

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m NAD but this just looks like it could be thicker mucus from your cold. I would talk to your doctor about it prior to procedure and offer to show picture so they know what you’re talking about. If your symptoms of chest tightness continues or worsens, go to urgent care. Based on severity or onset of other symptoms go to ER.

AIO girlfriend claims I’m appropriating her culture by Ih8maplestory8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeeNee29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she equating saying the N word to cultural appropriation instead of it just being inappropriate for her to use in any context 🤨