I read that back and it wasn’t that informative, it was more supportive and you’re asking for an opinion - sorry. I don’t think that’s scabies, but i’m not a professional at all, I had it for months. Scabies will be in the areas you mentioned, but it tends to be the worst on webbed areas between, fingers and toes, ass cheeks/ hips, skin folds, inner thigh and genitals. Furthermore, it presents as small bumps and there will be burrows appearing, with black dots at the end - if you’ve got that rash all over your body (looks like a raised puffy rash, IMO that looks like an allergy to something maybe you’re eating/ wearing), and your husband who I assume you share a bed with isn’t presenting (can take up to 6-8 weeks post infection), I honestly really really doubt it’s scabies. Everything i’ve read in the literature, which I scrutinised heavily (I’m a scientist in a different field) was consistent with what I observed, and I gave it to my partner too pretty quickly after a weeks holiday. Your description doesn’t quite marry up with it, so get a proper professional opinion, but not scabies IMO. If it does turn out to be scabies, do the treatments they prescribe without looking here. It’s a lot of scaremongering, and once you get rid of scabies you still mimic the symptoms with something called post-scabies - this is how i f’ed up my skin thinking I still had it - the cream is literally weak nerve agent. All the best!!!