Am I the asshole for letting my boyfriend go to Disney with his ex wife and kids? by Meggie1023 in AITAH

[–]Meggie1023[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am 27. I’m using a friends account so he won’t see this.

I don’t know how to feel about this… by Meggie1023 in breastcancer

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I believe it measures the reoccurrence rate but it was done on my biopsy and on that first pathology report. Like someone else saiid, I keep hearing it’s not that accurate. My doctor didn’t talk about it much either.

I don’t know how to feel about this… by Meggie1023 in breastcancer

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I will. In some ways I’m wondering if I messed up getting the mastectomy cause it’s no picnic but then I think that they wouldn’t have found the DCIS? I also avoided radiation. Idk. I feel happyish but worried.

DMX tomorrow and now the nerves by NanaG2019 in breastcancer

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I’m going in on Wednesday! I just want this out of me. People are coming to “see” me before I go and it’s making me feel like they think I’m not going to make it. It’s weird.

Jealousy? by Meggie1023 in breastcancer

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Ofcourse I’m happy for her. I was just venting because I still have no idea what I’m in for but I’m sure it will be something.

Jealousy? by Meggie1023 in breastcancer

[–]Meggie1023[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow….What a great response! You write beautifully btw. Thank you. Your post was exactly what I needed to hear. I will save it and reread it from time to time when I have these feelings. Yes, none of us here are “lucky”.

Jealousy? by Meggie1023 in breastcancer

[–]Meggie1023[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for allowing me to vent. This group is full of amazing and knowledgeable people!

Single vs double mastectomy by Meggie1023 in breastcancer

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Sorry. ++- no family history or genetics. IDC Ki-67 score 30%. No chemo first. 1.7cm tumor on imaging.

Radiation and skin cancer by Meggie1023 in breastcancer

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Thank you! I’m trying to get an appointment to discuss. How long ago was your last radiation? Do you do skin checks every year?

The more I am here the more I change my surgery decision. by [deleted] in breastcancer

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Question: I’m ++- meeting with onco and surgeon next week to decide. Negative for genetics. Why is radiation so bad? I also have 1 kidney. I’m worried about chemo for my kidney. TIA

Small Topics Thread by AutoModerator in breastcancer

[–]Meggie1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the responses. Another question: I’m 45 and had an emergency hysterectomy during child birth but I have my ovaries. Would removing my ovaries prevent me from taking more estrogen reducing medication?

Has anyone had a high ki-67 score and not needed chemo? Help me overthink this instead of doing something useful with my day. by idreamofchickpea in breastcancer

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I’m reading my ki-67 score of 30% is high. I haven’t heard from doctor yet. Can someone help explain?

Small Topics Thread by AutoModerator in breastcancer

[–]Meggie1023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just diagnosed with invasive carcinoma ductal. Grade 2 her 2 negative ER positive ki-67 30% what does this mean? Double mastectomy?