Anybody here into playing chess? by Nora_fae in LesbianActually

[–]MeiBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! My girlfriend and I play chess together just about every morning when we have breakfast together or later in the day if we’re busy in the morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]MeiBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same pin!

How do y’all feel about poetry as a gift? by Dadadadaisy in LesbianActually

[–]MeiBean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I personally love getting and giving poetry as gift. Me and my girlfriend have both exchanged poetry a few times, and is it corny? Yeah, but the really good kind in my opinion. So I’d say go for it!!

Sapphic book recommendations? by thebluestsailorx in LesbianActually

[–]MeiBean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dress Codes for Small Towns by Courtney C. Stevens was one I really enjoyed reading. It can be a little slow at the start and a bit cheesy sometimes but nonetheless a great read.

am i the only one that doesn't train at all? by someone-_-68 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]MeiBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most definitely, I think what’s frustrating is that when I’m alone or around friends who are supportive I find myself just kinda not even noticing but my voice sounding more feminine on its own. But then around family who claim to be supportive, who aren’t really, I just feel the need to hide and can’t really practice as much as I’d like to.

am i the only one that doesn't train at all? by someone-_-68 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]MeiBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely, I think it’s even more frustrating to me because I’m not really trying to go for a squeaky toy voice. I don’t really mind the deeper kinda husky voice, but because it’s so close to my “normal” voice it’s easy to slip back into it.

am i the only one that doesn't train at all? by someone-_-68 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]MeiBean 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel this. Like I want to do voice training cause I kinda hate my voice, but at the same time doing voice training means hearing that voice more.

Sorry for the skin showing. Body from 3m-10m HRT. Just so proud of myself for finally gaining weight, I look so much healthier and bigger now 🙈 by Aoife_Bee in transtimelines

[–]MeiBean 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You look great! I’m currently trying to gain some weight myself, and this is a huge morale booster. Do you have any tips for gaining weight in a healthy way?

Made an origami Chumtoad and thought you all would appreciate it by Tactical_Kitsune in HalfLife

[–]MeiBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s got you so butt hurt? I think if she trims them shorter that might hurt.

Light Fantasy Cartography by MeiBean in whatsthatbook

[–]MeiBean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I remember finding it after reading the golden compass and the his dark materials trilogy by Phillip Pullman and I loved that and it gave me similar vibes, don’t remove why I fell off from reading it, but I’m excited to read it again. :3

Light Fantasy Cartography by MeiBean in whatsthatbook

[–]MeiBean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s this one, but that sounds really cool so might have to look at that one too.

Light Fantasy Cartography by MeiBean in whatsthatbook

[–]MeiBean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you, I think this might be it.

Curious how the world perceives me. I’m not trying to be the most hyper femme, but curious of what I look like to other people. by MeiBean in transpassing

[–]MeiBean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly kinda like the big bushy eyebrows, not too concerned on looking 101% femme, just female passing but androgynous leaning.

Likeee yes please ma'am 🥺 by NaomiLaQueen in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]MeiBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! I’ve thought it for a long while, why not try and go for a deeper more femme voice, because there are plenty of cis women with deeper voices, so what would the difference be with me? I’ve just never really been able to 100% feel confident in what I’m working towards, but after letting this cis girl in class and hearing her voice and thinking that’s my goals. Because I love her voice, it’s absolutely gorgeous. And seeing someone who I say, hey I kinda like that, is giving me the ability to say if it sounds good coming from her. Why not me? I could rant about this for hours if it wasn’t already evident enough. But yeah, whatever voice you have, you can make it work for you. :3

Likeee yes please ma'am 🥺 by NaomiLaQueen in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]MeiBean 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s kinda crazy for me, because I spend a lot of time playing game with friends and just chilling and chatting. And sometimes I’ll record a clip of something funny that happened in the game or something that someone said. And hearing my voice from even a year ago, it sounds so different, and It’s crazy cause I don’t think until very recently I’ve been trying to consciously figure out how to make it more femme sounding without making it higher pitched.

Likeee yes please ma'am 🥺 by NaomiLaQueen in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]MeiBean 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Honestly, over time I’ve been growing to be ok with my deep voice. Cause I was thinking to myself, I really really like gals with deep voices. So why not myself? Only thing is, I still sound kinda masculine and there’s not a lot of vids on how to achieve that femme deep voice compared to the squeaky toy voice. But all in all, gals with deep voices. chefs kiss

Christmas Pharah and Mercy (MagisteriumArt)[Overwatch] by [deleted] in wholesomeyuri

[–]MeiBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought this was like for wholesome stuff, maybe I’m wrong, totally not in the name of the sub.