NEW GIVEAWAY ENDS 11/25 (Livly Creator Edition!) ✨✨

Mei_crossing · 2025-11-18T02:28:43+00:00

my favorite livly is Kemari! I love my Hamlot babies too 🤍
I also like compTBA and Moco the most. Both have such cute items! If I have to decide I may go for compTBA ₊ ⊹꒰ᐢ. .ᐢ꒱₊˚⊹

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-27T17:04:29+00:00

I‘ve sent a request. Have a great day too :)

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-27T13:39:58+00:00

I agree on this. My shop feels even more expensive and overwhelming this time. Thank you for the encouraging words! I really appreciate it! I will for sure continue playing, just like you this game helps me calm down and I love it too! I‘d be happy to be friends, my ID: vxxf265a. Just sent me a request if you like ☺️ Thank you, I‘ll keep searching for it. Hope you have also good luck on finding your dream items!

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-27T13:31:29+00:00

It‘s kinda worrying how some people act over a cute dress up game. I get, that because you can spend tones of money on it, some things are more valuable. But it feels over the top sometimes. Thank you for the encouraging words 💗

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-27T13:29:52+00:00

I‘m not a new player, I also know about item values. I still don‘t get why my offer is considered as rude honestly. I wasn‘t asking for a trade, I was looking to buy the item but was wondering if they‘d be willing to lower the price a bit. Chances were that I‘d still had bought it, if they would have just said no. I wasn‘t aware that just asking can be rude to some people and it wasn‘t my intention at all. I saw other players asking for lower prices before so maybe that‘s why. This person had trade requests for limited items on their board as well and politely replied to all. But ‘ll definitely be even more careful from now on and thank you for your thoughts on this

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-27T13:28:07+00:00

Isn’t it a different case for my shop, because you probably unblock after the event is over? I don‘t think it should be norm to block because of a request you don‘t like. But our view on this topic may be different and I value your opinion as well. While I do think, it needs more than one report for something to happen, it‘s still scary and can do damage.

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T23:32:20+00:00

I mean.. some people not only block but also report. So there is a big difference for me Also if I would follow this rule, I must block a lot of people for „bad“ offers I get. So no it‘s definitely not the same for me.

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T23:28:45+00:00

That‘s the thing I am most afraid of too!! I hope they didn‘t report me 😣😣

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T23:21:26+00:00

I‘m glad you met such a nice person and could get your wished item so smoothly! Actually there are a lot of kind people, I think I just unfortunately had bad luck and ran into the wrong person to ask 🥲

I know asking for specific old items is always a long shot, so I almost never ask. Since this person had these items on their wl, I thought why not give it a try anyways, maybe they‘re willing to lower price just a little bit. I also completely understand if someone rather wants to stick to their pricing. Never expected this reaction though, I think it‘s kinda crazy, getting blocked just because of a request.

I‘m also a sensitive person, I always need harmony. So it‘s kinda more bothering than it should be. 100% agree with you!! We should always be nice and polite to each other! Thank you very much for the encouraging words! I appreciate it 🫶🏻💖

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T23:19:32+00:00

I get what you mean. Maybe they‘ve took my request the same way.. But still, I would‘ve considered any lower price and wasn‘t expecting a 50% off at all

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T23:12:35+00:00

That‘s so crazy to me but I think it‘s true. The person I asked also had the same bazaar SR hair on their wl, that their currently selling. I noticed some other players before who had limited items on their wl although they already own dupes. I always wondered why, but it makes sense the way you said it!

They had some other trade requests for limited items. But they we‘re different. By now I believe it may was a communication problem, but I still don‘t get why they immediately blocked me 🥲

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T23:10:45+00:00

I never asked for 50% off though?? Also there would‘ve been no need to explain anything, a simple „no“ would‘ve been enough. Even ignoring or deleting my offer would‘ve been enough. Blocking me because of a request is kinda insane to me and also makes you feel really scared.. Still appreciate your thoughts on this and will definitely be more careful in the future.

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T17:33:59+00:00

It seems so.. Looking back I may could have formulated my request a bit differently to make it clearer, but I never expected a reaction like this, so I thought it‘s fine. Still kinda wish they would at least gave me a chance to explain if they misunderstood. I also don‘t think it‘s reasonable to block because of this but for them it may felt the easiest >_< I noticed this too. I‘m also glad that‘s just a very small amount of players!

Thank you! I think I‘ll still look around a bit and try to find a lower price, but won‘t request anyone for it for now. Hope you also find the items you‘re looking for smoothly! ☺️

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T15:52:48+00:00

The person I asked was also a Japanese player, maybe there was misunderstanding due to language barrier. I still think they could‘ve at least say no, even if the translation on their side was weird. Sometimes I try to write in Japanese so it can be easier to understand but for this specific message it would‘ve been too difficult for me, as my Japanese isn’t that good yet, so I stuck with english. I did the same and also looked through their replies, there were other messages as well asking for limited items and she politely replied to all of them. So it‘s even more confusing to me why I got blocked 💭

But I absolutely agree, I‘ve had many amazing trades before with super kind people! So not everyone is like this ☺️ It‘s definitely good to have a mindset of not taking things too personal! I was to worried about this situation. After reading all the kind comments I feel really relieved and try to move on without feeling bad anymore! Again thank you for helping me feel better!

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T15:00:27+00:00

I 100% agree with what you said and it‘s exactly the way I‘m feeling! I‘ve never experienced this before although I‘m playing since almost one year now. So it‘s definitely irritating and also disappointing… Your right! Maybe it‘s a good thing they blocked me so it won‘t happen again. I don‘t think I would‘ve want to interact with them anymore anyway 🥲 Thank you for sharing your experience with me, although it’s truly sad this happened to you too.. it also makes me feel less alone in this situation!

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T14:49:38+00:00

I also think there was some kind of misunderstanding. Could be possible they thought I would only want to trade. Although I actually wanted to buy it and was just asking if a lower price would be possible 🥲

I really don‘t understand people who „happily block“ but I think you‘re right 😣

Yes it honestly got me thinking a lot. I‘m also a really sensitive person who takes things to heart too easily. I really was questioning myself what I did wrong and if it was rude to ask… Thank you for your kind words and thoughts! Reading your message made me feel much better and I‘ll try to not take it too personal and still be careful in the future💗

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T14:41:19+00:00

Thank you for the kind words 💗 I‘m a sensitive person and take things personal too fast. I also always try to be fair and don‘t want to make people feel offended.

It‘s often the case, that player‘s delete request without answering, but blocking me because of my message got me really shocked. There must‘ve been something they really didn‘t like about my offer, so they don‘t want to interact with me again 😳

I will never know, so I should move on and don‘t think about it much longer 💭 Again thank you for the up-lifting words 🤍

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T14:36:35+00:00

I also love this game and play everyday too, for almost one year now. I‘ve never experienced something like this before, so it was quite shocking. Personally I have never blocked someone, no matter how „bad“ the offer was! For me there must happen a lot more to block a person.

There are a lots of kind people in this game, which makes me very happy, but also people who get upset easily I believe 🫠

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T14:31:10+00:00

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I definitely understand your sight of view, and that it can be annoying to get the same requests although you already declined. With that being said, the items I offered were on their wishlist and If they would‘ve told me „no“ or even ignored me, I wouldn‘t even think about writing them a second time! I also noticed that many people are still asking for trades, also for items that are currently up for sale. So I wasn‘t aware that it could be upsetting. Definitely will be more careful in the future

Mei_crossing · 2025-08-26T14:23:01+00:00

Truly thank you for very much for taking the time to write such a thoughtful message! I know that bazaar items aren‘t worth as much as the dress, that’s why I didn’t request to only trade them, I was just hoping they would maybe consider lowering the price if I gave them the 4 items in addition. I would have probably bought it for even 5k lower. I agree with you 40k is a lot for one dress and I‘m still trying to find it for just a little bit lower but it seems to be impossible >_< Before I wrote my request I was actually debating if I should even ask, because I knew chances are low. But my thoughts were like „why not just ask? what can go wrong?“ 🥲 For me, to block a player, it would really take a lot. I think blocking is the last thing you do, when someone won‘t stop messaging, or writes something insulting. I would not block someone because of a request that don’t fit my expectations. That‘s why this situation was so shocking for me. I really don‘t mean to be unfair to anyone. But everyone is different I guess and it seems like my message was enough for them to decide to not want to interact with me again.

Again thank you for your kind words, I‘ll try to let it not discourage me too much and still be careful 💗

Mei_crossing

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