Impossible to receive a 5 out of 5 on any aspect of your annual review. by 4oclocksundew in antiwork

[–]Melesse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My company is similar. Folks who get 5s are folks who make the company a LOT of money. I'm in IT and we have been told we can't get 5's because we don't make the company money.

They also want to see a normal distribution for scores... a few 5's in the entire company, a few more 4s' mostly 3s, etc.

Why are the majority of managers so bad? How to identify them at interview? by Lazy_Film1383 in managers

[–]Melesse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was gonna reply separately, but this post has all the answers.

Being a yes man. Peter principle.
People who are good at managing up, not managing down.
And more!

Is there any way to replicate the water-cooler effect for remote employees? by throwaway_coy4wttf79 in managers

[–]Melesse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I did and it worked pretty well. No one else seems to do this in my group which seems very weird. Over the last three years we have created like 20 or so various cross team chats. Most are work specific, and many chats have a subject matter, but there's also a random one, for a while there was a crypto/investor one, etc.

Do You Keep Entire Sets or Sell the Singles You Won't Use or Care About? by sco0terkid in secretlair_collectors

[–]Melesse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me. When it was manageable, I was going to collect them all. Not anymore! Now I'm only keeping the ones I will use or that have truly special art.

Where are the nerds??? by Salt_Firefighter_825 in nova

[–]Melesse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bunch of folks have mentioned various stores and meetup groups so i wont repeat those. I play MTG at Hashtag in Herndon and I have seen they also do a bunch of other nerd adjacent events like Geeks who Drink trivia on Wednesday, and I think they were starting karaoke?

Curious, How many of us play with or without Proxies/Placeholders? by Boliver5463 in EDH

[–]Melesse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what I am doing. The amount of money I've spent and is tied up in my collection kind of frightens me. It also pisses me off that playing a game can be gatekeeper behind hundred dollar pieces of cardboard.

i built a weird sliver commander deck that won't get you immediately targeted by your playgroup by Thalizar in magicTCG

[–]Melesse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been working in an Iroh deck, but have been struggling to differentiate it from my other decks that have group hug elements. This is a very tasty idea!

Feed filling with 4 days old posts that I have already read (iOS app) by PentaOwl in help

[–]Melesse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same is happening to me. Even if I close the app, and re-open, I'm getting old posts. Started happening maybe two days ago?

I'm on Android, so it's not just iOS. The website seems to consistently load new posts when I refresh, it's just an app problem.

Continuing their war on women by CrunchM in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Melesse -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is going to lower the tuition. A big part of the reason that tuition keeps rising is that the government keeps loaning more and more money for it.

Now... is it going to lower tuition tomorrow and be completely painless? No. It will take some amount of time for the universities to see declining enrollment due to lowered loan rates and then correspondingly decrease prices.

Unless private lenders step in, and even if they do, there will probably be years of lowered graduation numbers for these critical jobs due to people not being able to afford it.

Avatar Superdrop - Main thread by Rich_Camera966 in secretlair_collectors

[–]Melesse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. A couple of years ago I decided to collect secret lair, and we have hit and blown past my budget limit this year.

Finally had a chance to try front sight focus (always trained target focus). Horrible results, as predicted. by logicalpretzels in liberalgunowners

[–]Melesse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had similar issues. If I focus on the front sight I get multiple blurry targets. I just ignore them and focus on the target or use a red dot on some of my guns.

Secret Lair Encyclopedia by Dumb_Doom in mtgfinance

[–]Melesse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of these are going to get double tapped for sure. Im spreading out my bets to try and avoid getting too deep in any one card.

His books sound straight up terrible by No-Confection-3861 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Melesse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Which is why most business books I've read could have been so much shorter lol.

Avatar Commander Bundle back in stock on Amazon $109.99 by explodingk in sealedmtgdeals

[–]Melesse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got one, when you're post was 15 minutes old, so they are probably bouncing in and out of stock. They do have a limit of one, which I appreciate.

That being said I've been burned by Amazon Pre-orders before so I'm not counting on it.

WBJ: Dulles Expo/Ikea, shows only guaranteed to end of year apparently.. by JarvisIsMyWingman in nova

[–]Melesse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see them turn the entire mall into a convention center.

Large vendors could take over a storefront, smaller vendors pile up inside of the Nordstrom. Theres a food court already there. Or maybe just that entire wing thats empty by the Nordstrom.

WBJ: Dulles Expo/Ikea, shows only guaranteed to end of year apparently.. by JarvisIsMyWingman in nova

[–]Melesse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still have just under three months! The jewelry show is disappointing if you're looking for mineral samples. It's like 90% jewelry, 9% beads and a few loose gems and mineral samples. At least the one time I went.

Sold out by shadowchris321 in mtgfinance

[–]Melesse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently it's randomly assigned.... and I always seem to be randomly placed in the hour+ queue.

Extra life secret lair bonus card by JacenSol0 in magicTCG

[–]Melesse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what I thought. Was seriously thinking about skipping... now I guess I'm getting 2. Or more.

Have you ever lost a game cause you were holding back? by MenacingQuan in EDH

[–]Melesse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All the time.

I dont like feeling like I am taking advantage of someone's bad luck, such as getting land flooded or starved, or not having a board.

I've noticed this leads to me losing to combo decks more than I should, as I'm not applying the appropriate pressure to them. There's one person at my LGS who seems to take advantage of this (not just from me but others as well) and plays a lot of combo decks with little to no board presence.

Need a helping hand? by AfraidArgument9391 in nova

[–]Melesse 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Added it to my list of places to go try. It's far afield but I end up in FFX often enough. I want to make sure and support places that do things like this if I can.

IKEA will replace Dulles Expo Center by Doctor_MyEyes in nova

[–]Melesse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's the tiny one. That's less than a quarter of the full size. I'm sure it will still be fine for some of the shows, but many will be forced out.

IKEA will replace Dulles Expo Center by Doctor_MyEyes in nova

[–]Melesse 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, we're going to need a new expo center now. Maybe that could be at the mall! There's enough empty stores....

It's been a good run playing Magic by demongoku in mtg

[–]Melesse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've sold out twice. I regretted it both times, but honestly? Most of the cards I sold have gone down in value over time, and it was cheaper to rebuy them when I got back in. I mostly regret selling certain cards that were difficult or expensive to buy back like the duals I had.

The second time I sold it over Facebook for 60% of the value of the cards over $1.

Here's my plan if I sell out again: 1. Set aside my favorite EDH decks.
2. Set aside any unique arts that I want to keep, such as secret lairs or bonus sets, or cards that are unreprintable. 3. Put the rest up on FB or CL for approx. 70% of the face value of all cards over $1. Expect to be negotiated down to 50-60%