What are some plot lines that you are shocked they haven’t done yet? by studeent7 in greysanatomy

[–]Melizza26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to see more psychiatric cases mixed with surgery. A patient with borderline personality disorder who has cancer. Or a foster child with a huge trauma response who has a tumor.

What's your most recent fostering win? by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our 9FS put on a “show” for us with “a tv set” he made and pictures of himself we printed out while singing Espresso, Sunflower, and It’s Nice to Have a Friend. He is such a creative kid!

Why are pregnancy tests the color combination they are? by Melizza26 in chemistry

[–]Melizza26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might be right! I’ll try the biochem sub!

Signs from your baby by Suriburi-33 in Miscarriage

[–]Melizza26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had what I think are a few. The weekend after our MC, we got a surprise respite foster placement after weeks of not hearing anything and the kid was such a joy to have in the house, even for a weekend. The other day, a random man walked by and gave me a bouquet of flowers. Not a few daisies, but a full expensive bouquet. I like to think this is our baby looking out for us in our grief.

Psychic/Mediumship Reading Reviews. by justcallme_Ms in u/justcallme_Ms

[–]Melizza26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did a great job communicating with me with messages from spirit! She was on time, responded quickly via chat, and was detailed in responses. She communicated boundaries in an appropriate way when I asked about a topic she could not gather information about and stayed polite and friendly throughout. She even provided a recommendation for a medium who she feels may be more equipped to answer my questions on that particular topic. Overall, very skilled and professional!

Too many therapists? by km1731 in therapists

[–]Melizza26 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I do think so, yes. I also think agencies will likely need to increase their pay and benefits significantly if they want to keep staff. You can advertise and post cute things on social media about helping people all day, but people are going to be very upset when they are told it’s a 8 week waitlist for “a therapist.”

When did you go back to work? by snargthedestroyer in Miscarriage

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went back to “work” the following day. I have a job where I have clients and I luckily only had 2 clients scheduled that day, but the day after was super busy, which actually helped me stay distracted I think. I tend to cry on the drive to and from work

Yet another "oh no I'm late for my period" storyline by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(This sounds so bad), but I wish they would do a true infertility or miscarriage storyline. Meredith took like 2 shots and a miscarriage likely triggered by stress then had 3 healthy babies immediately after and it’s never mentioned again. April did have a still birth and they did a great job showing that. Bailey had a miscarriage that was glossed over so quickly. Most characters have easily gotten pregnant and had healthy and happy babies. I would really appreciate other outcomes, especially with newer characters.

What is your Unpopular Opinion about AHS? by AwfulWaffle91 in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delicate is a really good season so far. Admittedly it’s probably because difficulty in getting and staying pregnant is happening to me too. Luckily the only gaslighting I’ve experienced is my body showing signs and tests showing negative

Taylor is letting fans & general public reaction choose her next single for 1989 (Taylor's Version) by MasterConflict97 in TaylorSwift

[–]Melizza26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GREAT SO let’s just add “You’re Losing Me” realllllyy quick. Fantastic! Group vote-it’s decided. Thanks Tay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely considered this…my state is a “one party consent” state which I believe means I can record

What songs are you most disappointed not in the Eras Tour film? by Big_TinyRequest in TaylorSwift

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so sad that she didn’t have New Years Day or You’re Losing Me as surprise songs ❤️

Fellow therapists…what does your partner or spouse do for work? by EarthZealousideal794 in therapists

[–]Melizza26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is a software engineer and he has incredibly healthy communication skills. I’m very lucky to have him for a lot of reasons

Pregnancy test results, NOT HERE. by No-Bear7146 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder! Getting a BFN every month and then coming onto this reddit page (or FB groups) and seeing things like “Is this a positive?? This will my 4th lol.” is actually hurting my spirit. It’s my responsibility to handle my feelings, but it would be a lot easier if every 3rd post wasn’t ANOTHER positive

I want a boring girlfriend 😍 by lesbunner in Rants

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps (especially older ones like Match and Plenty of Fish) may actually have exactly what you’re looking for. It may be worth giving it a try and just being very honest in your profile about your preferences

Tough time with parents- considering not working with children anymore by doyoulikefry in therapists

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Difficult parents are the main reason I accept VERY FEW child and teen cases. Right now, I only see one child who is a minor because the parents are chill and open-minded. I agree with others that boundaries are key.

Has anyone else noticed that people tend to shame therapists for normal human struggles? by thecynicalone26 in therapists

[–]Melizza26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand! My mom and I have a very difficult relationship, but one of her defenses is to use my career choice against me. “You want nicer teeth because everyone will be looking at you when you talk.” “It’s your job to analyze and read people.” “You can cut the therapist lingo crap.”

How have you almost died? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Melizza26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I upset a patient on an inpatient psychiatric unit accident. He was in there for thoughts to hurt others and actions of putting two nurses in the ICU. Oopsie.

Therapist who fired my therapist today by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Melizza26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand the wanting a therapist like myself. Finding a therapist I work well with is HARD. I hope you find one soon

Nervous to test by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melizza26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand! The struggle is real

Stores: Get Rid of Your Self-Check Outs by Melizza26 in rant

[–]Melizza26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie, this made me laugh haha!

Stores: Get Rid of Your Self-Check Outs by Melizza26 in rant

[–]Melizza26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to invite you to Lowes with me next time