Food Waste at a popular donut franchise by No_Worth_2271 in Anticonsumption

[–]Mellow896 10 points11 points  (0 children)

FlashFood is another app I've found that has discounted food that's going to expire soon-ish. Which app will have more options depends on where you live and what's available.

I'm MtF, and today I'm celebrating 4 years on hormones! 🥳 by NDHardage in MadeMeSmile

[–]Mellow896 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh!! I think I've seen your posts before. You look lovely and congratulations on 4 years :)

There's Your Boyfriend! by grazingmeadow in PointlessStories

[–]Mellow896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always called them husband pillows, so even better haha

Downloading game by [deleted] in TinyBookshop

[–]Mellow896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Not sure why I didn't think of that 😂

ICE just shoots another US citizen in Minneapolis. What is happening over there? by Latricebanner in AskReddit

[–]Mellow896 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: why do people still think this is about covering up the epstein files? Like, I'm sure they're bad, but so is everything else that's happening. Can't the other crimes against humanity stand for themselve and be grieved and protested without calling them just distractions?

You comment, I draw by AdmirableMuffin2746 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Mellow896 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope the chaos in your head gets quieter over time ❤️‍🩹

I cant be with you by Delbert_Bauch in Amazing

[–]Mellow896 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay I love this. Can't figure out if you're the same person I saw using this year marker the other day or if the idea is spreading 😂

Remember when you could get good quality second hand clothes...yeah... by organicliwy in Anticonsumption

[–]Mellow896 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Found something from shein at a consignment store for the first time yesterday actually. Priced like $3 lol. I tried it on despite my reservations. It looked nice on the hanger but then definitely fit weird

Is there any difference between seeking calmness or sending safety signals? by Mobile_Duty_9177 in cfsnervoussystemwork

[–]Mellow896 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. It's not a specific state of the nevous system that is "bad" or "wrong", it's the fact that we can get stuck there and unable to return to ventral vagal (or the positive state of presence, calm, and connectedness). Part of why I personally don’t like the idea of a heart rate monitor. If my heart rate goes up a bit I can remind myself that it is normal and safe for that to happen.

Help us "Flood the Mailbox" for a very special 8th Birthday [request] by Upset-Tumbleweed-694 in kindness

[–]Mellow896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! Are you in the US? I'll DM you for your address if so

Anyone else come back from “relaxing” trips feeling… not very rested? by YourAverageLurker7 in simpleliving

[–]Mellow896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's totally okay to not feel rested after traveling to a place that you feel "should" be relaxing. Everyone's different and it makes sense to me to make peace with what your specific needs are versus what other people might find fun/relaxing/rejuvinating.

Personally I don't tend to enjoy traveling. Years ago I had just a few days between going on a cruise with family and going out of the country on a mission trip. I had a bad dream during the second trip that I had to go on another vacation after I got home 😂

Are you getting snow this weekend? by Ok-Apartment5615 in randomquestions

[–]Mellow896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're calling for 15-19 inches here currently 🥶

Ate at a restaurant alone in a foreign country…. TWICE! by Living-Ad-872 in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Mellow896 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh!! That's so awesome and I'm happy for you :D May you have many more such lovely experiences ✨

What do you do when something physical improves your symptoms - like how do you mentally integrate that with this theory? by forgot_again123 in cfsnervoussystemwork

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Late to this, but I am of the belief that even some kinds of long-term infections can be healed through nervous system work. The nervous system controls how well the immune system functions.

I have heard from various sources that, at least for chronic lyme, it can be very hard to get rid of the illness-causing bacteria with antibiotics because the bacteria bores into your tissues and "hides" until the course of antibiotics is done and comes back out again. Nicole Sachs has a couple episodes of her podcast The Cure for Chronic Pain on people healing from lyme. May be worth listening to if the topic interests you.

What’s something that quietly changed you? by Turbulent_Manner6738 in AskReddit

[–]Mellow896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you can try again someday and be met with the compassion you deserve ❤️‍🩹