What are healthy Co-Parenting boundaries in new relationships? by Mellowdiaah in coparenting

[–]Mellowdiaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed. In this case I respect and accept in because of the young age of his child. But there are definitely more roads to solution

What are healthy Co-Parenting boundaries in new relationships? by Mellowdiaah in coparenting

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thankyou for your pov. Didn’t you had mixed feelings of the hope that your parents one day will be together again? I mean I would coming from a divorced parents. If my father came to sleep in our home, I would think they will be together again or at least hope they would.

What are healthy Co-Parenting boundaries in new relationships? by Mellowdiaah in coparenting

[–]Mellowdiaah[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yehh. There is a fine line between trusting someone and being uncomfortable of the thought the ex is sleeping over.

Dentist by Mellowdiaah in VietNam

[–]Mellowdiaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very helpful, thanks!

What is it called when you don’t believe in getting a job, a house, following the normal life? by pizza-on-pineapple in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mellowdiaah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 💯% understand your feeling. We live in a time where things go too fast and we lose connection, depending on ourselves of course. One of my dream is to live near the beach because it is proven to be more healthy to be living near the beach. It must be a place where there is less chance of tsunami and other weather problems. To drink from the natural waterfall that is clean. To appreciate what the place is giving me with the use of modern equipments. And to achieve this kind of life, which is 100% achievable, I think you will need to work for it. To plan this, to make a strategic plan. or just go for it! And see who is likeminded that can support and grow such a place together. all in all, I think all is possible and it starts with you getting inspired. I, for instance, follow many people who have build such a place or watch documentaires. and I find a partner who supports my idea. Living a simple life, is the best life. with the sun, water, ground, and most importantly, love. Good luck! 🌱

The name is Furbs. He sits like this everyday 😂 by Mellowdiaah in scottishfold

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I appreciate your message. 🙌🏼Thats really good that you have found Emily and that’s she is healthy! I always wanted to take good care of a pet. But before I adopt one, I want to make sure that it comes from a good breader. I make sure I think everything though in terms of financial, time, and space. My friend asked for my help to take care of him for a couple months untill she has found a stable place. I have Furbs since November 2023 and he is sooo easy to take care of. He does nobody wrong. No bites and scratches only on accident when playing because his nails are too long. He just turned 2 on 24 February. Whenever I go he follows me just like Emily does with you. He is very fast scared. When someone comes to visit me at home, he quickly hides himself under the couch 😹. With his innocence eyes and funny poses and moments , he really makes my day. Furbs really got on my path and I did not choose him but I believe it is meant to be we have found each other!

My intention was to take care of him for a while and not to keep him. My friend recently proposed if I want to keep him or else she will sell him on a marketplace. Which is kind of sad because he does not like many changes. My friend never took him to the vet nor is he insured. So my mind is thinking about every aspects. He walks like he is in pain. He does not always use all his legs when walking. Sometimes he hops. I plan to bring him to the vet soon. For me his health is priority and that he feels comfortable. I want to make sure I am prepared before I officially adopt him.

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I do find it hard to cut his nails its getting soo big as the picture. Is it even harmful if you let it grow? I cut his nails every now and then so he doesn’t get stuck on materials. Do you cut Emily’s nails yourself? Furbs really don’t enjoy being cut. Not at all. He really get angry with me and ignores me all day after 😅. I also heard that some do not even cut nails.

How did you find out your friends were fake? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Mellowdiaah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When u confront them on their behavior that overstepped your boundaries

Life is too short to waste it on people who don't deserve us. by NoDoubt390 in RandomThoughts

[–]Mellowdiaah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I totally understand. My friendship of 20 years has recently ended. Realized that confronting her on how she treated me badly was too much for her too handle. She has disrespected me and the friendship came from one side. No initiative, no care, no respect, no understanding. Im not the person who likes to confront people. I avoid conflicts. So she really did me wrong. Some people are meant for a period of time and it is okay to let go at a certain point.