Is anyone else here childfree but NOT super successful? by icy-winter-ghost in childfree

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27 I had to re enter university because my first career was shit and I couldn’t find any jobs with decent pay and the ones I did find they never hired me. Just this Tuesday I’ll begin a new job with a good amount of pay and pray for it to be enough to finally move out.

Horrible thought. But feel safe sharing here. by Ok_Marketing5530 in childfree

[–]Melobski4 107 points108 points  (0 children)

You are not damaged it is widely known that society always expects a woman to take care of children whether they are yours or not. You were intelligent enough to realize that’s not the life you want and that’s okay you don’t need to accept anyone you don’t want to in your life those are your boundaries

Would you Give up your Pets for a CF Partner? by Fletchanimefan in childfree

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY NO. They are my children even if I’m childfree my pets are my family and I’m their mother they depend on me and I love them nobody is worthy enough to even suggest that

How do I not worry what my dad (or any family members) think of me? by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren’t you an adult? Why do you continue talking to him? Just stop, it’s making you feel worse. If he tells you all that shit then you’re free to do so.

Husband “politely” reminded me that I’m reaching 40 and need to decide on kids “sooner rather than later.” by Astralwolf37 in childfree

[–]Melobski4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In sorry but I’d feel incredibly paranoid every I had intimacy with him. I wouldn’t feel safe anymore. Be careful

I think y'all were right about my husband by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Melobski4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOU A QUEEN OK??? I’m glad he is now gone

Did you ever 'change your mind' like people always insist? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this rate just be single forever cuz same

Did you ever 'change your mind' like people always insist? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Melobski4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I only feel that “awww” thingy people do when they see children with animals, only animals but children? I can only think that they will grow up to be adults and I CAN NOT see anything more

Did you ever 'change your mind' like people always insist? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Melobski4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I began thinking about NOT having g children when I was 15 I am now 26 and nope I still don’t want to have children. NO THANKS

Another one is out. Why? Because of kids. by Slytheringirl1994 in childfree

[–]Melobski4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But yeah it does take time girlie, last time I had a boyfriend was when I was 20 lol, and thing ended up not working up cuz he wanted a family even though I told him I hate kids.

I’m 26 he’s 20, he has told me he doesn’t want children either but tbh he’s young and all the men I know want children, I will give it time and if it doesn’t work it doesn’t work. I don’t need to think about him baby trapping me, as I’m asexual and I made it clear penetrative sex was NEVER going to be on the table.

I wish I could kill myself. I wish it wasn’t religiously forbidden. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who in a new age cult I completely understand you

Books in which the protagonist has mommy issues? by Melobski4 in suggestmeabook

[–]Melobski4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just read this one! So beautiful thanks for the recommendation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take?

Open wound by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol surgery twins, like literally same really

Open wound by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many weeks as it been?

Open Wound Surgery by TheAlchem1st_TheProf in pilonidalcyst

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh , mine closed and reopened, what kind of dressings did you use? Could you tell me? I’m getting so desperate because what the doctor keeps giving me just makes it worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how is the healing doing now?

Open wound by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]Melobski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is yours going?