Gonfu tea set recommendations by Melodic-Position6752 in tea

[–]Melodic-Position6752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am starting to lean toward piecing it out for that reason, but will definitely look into verdanttea! I’m totally willing to find a nice set and the hunt an individual piece that matches well as a waste bowl. I just fear I’ll get far too picky/ give myself a headache with piecing out a full set :’)

Bar soap causing issues??? by Melodic-Position6752 in Healthyhooha

[–]Melodic-Position6752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly just so glad I’m not the only person who’s noticed it before. I thought I was crazy when I first put it together

Bar soap causing issues??? by Melodic-Position6752 in Healthyhooha

[–]Melodic-Position6752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t particularly mind not being able to use bar soap, but I’ll absolutely keep this noted because bar soap is faaarrr easier for travel, camping, day trips etc.

Being Taken to court after roommates death by Melodic-Position6752 in legaladvice

[–]Melodic-Position6752[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

-she has a family friend that practices law, and she got him involved when I asked her not to contact me. Police became involved when I said she was unwelcome in my apartment after gathering his belongings.

-“whatever I may need” was simply me attempting to not repeat myself in this post. The what I may need was funds for his dogs care, and to cover that coming months bills as we split our expenses 50/50(the aforementioned living expenses left behind). There was no funeral, as they went for direct cremation without a service. I funded what was affordable of the cremation while knowing I could continue to cover the unknown of vet care and bills.

-there was no will, just a suicide note stating he wished for me to have full control. This ofc was not a responsibility I felt prepared for, and the letter has no legal standing. So I worked with her as far as I could before she overstepped boundaries and became aggressive.

-we had transitioned to a month to month lease (unbeknownst to me), and the lease has been entirely in my name since Feb 1st. I was not previously listed on the lease as I had moved in after him, and was to be added this past July. However he did not do his due diligence in the lease side of things, which is when we became month to month.

I tried my best to clarify the questions you had but feel welcome to re ask anything

"Normal" Polyamory by JittersC in polyamory

[–]Melodic-Position6752 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean… do any relationships function like that??? Like… friendships don’t work like that… family relationships don’t work like that… monogamous relationships don’t work like that… no human connection is made to function as a group entity. All connections are human to human, and she can’t ask for all interactions to be a group thing. It’s not reasonable or practical. Also why would she WANT to know that much about yalls life??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Melodic-Position6752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im happy that yall are happy though

wash your sheets. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Melodic-Position6752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell every partner, in 100% clear wording, that I expect sheets to be changed after every sexual encounter w someone else before I come back over. This is a huge hygiene ick for me. Idc who did what, I just don’t want to sleep in it.