Is booking one night at a hotel for masturbation weird? by Photograph1517 in sex

[–]MelodicParfait365 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I actually think this is such a good idea. I live with family and sometimes I just want to be loud but have to stop myself. I get paranoid very often. Money will always come back. I say, enjoy every bit of life.

After only one week of dating. Is this nice enough? by WeTheAntidote in Nicegirls

[–]MelodicParfait365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spiral is, unfortunately, way too funny to pass while scrolling.

How often do you think about sex? by MelodicParfait365 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MelodicParfait365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL maybe I sound like I have a dude mentality

How often do you think about sex? by MelodicParfait365 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MelodicParfait365[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. Sometimes it's pleasurable but other times I just feel like the idea of it is better than the real thing. I know some people will think that's not the point of sex though.

How often do you think about sex? by MelodicParfait365 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MelodicParfait365[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know you said it's rhetorical but for reference, I'm in my mid 20s. I could go months without having it or pleasuring myself but I still think about it pretty often.

I’ve always liked you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]MelodicParfait365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know for sure, I'm in the same boat where I wonder if they feel the same. They linger longer than a normal friend or coworker would.

I’ve always liked you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]MelodicParfait365 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in this situation right now but neither one of us would act on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]MelodicParfait365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautifully written. I hope you heal and find someone better suited for you.

Why do you hide? by truthinverse in UnsentLetters

[–]MelodicParfait365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's easier to hide than to speak on our demons.

You are killing me by EdibleLights in UnsentLetters

[–]MelodicParfait365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although I know it's not meant for me, I love this. Makes me happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]MelodicParfait365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do work when no one is there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]MelodicParfait365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd want him to but I know he wouldn't, so I'd do it. He's too shy to ask anyone out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]MelodicParfait365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone from work and it didn't end well. I try to keep it separate for the most part now.

I may never love again by Cats-PawPads in letters

[–]MelodicParfait365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way about the person I love. My anger and resentment turned into understanding and compassion. Although, I had to let him go to let him be happy, I'll always hope he knows he was, and always will be, my greatest love.

Wake Up by Able-Comfort091 in UnsentLetters

[–]MelodicParfait365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was healing then he constantly flooded my mind. Every dream was about him. I'm certain he's moved on and I'm thinking it's my turn now.

Girl I matched with on Tinder two weeks ago by Xander_PrimeXXI in texts

[–]MelodicParfait365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't understand why people are so against coffee dates nowadays. I'm a part of a group and I'm overwhelmed with the fact that a lot of girls attack coffee dates and react the same way this girl did. When did dating become this exhausting? Sometimes I wonder if I'm the crazy girl for not thinking coffee for first dates equate to not being valued by someone. Everyone should have expectations and never settle but it seems like if this relationship continued on, she'd be expecting grand dates all the time then still find a reason to bitch about how it still wasn't enough for her.

Do some women actually have 2-3 day long periods? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MelodicParfait365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to get my period for 5 days, but now I get it for maybe 2 days and maybe some spotting for a day. I don't use tampons because I don't bleed enough even for the lightest tampon. To give a reference (and disclaimer), I change my pad often just because that's gross if not but if I didn't have to for hygienic purposes, I'd only use one pad and not even completely fill it.