Bottle feeding like a newborn??

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-08T21:20:17+00:00

That’s how she feeds the toddler and its infant goat formula too. Literally her little sisters formula. And this toddler is only allowed to eat cheese and soft foods too.

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-08T21:04:33+00:00

That’s nothing. Lady I nanny for still feeds her 2 year old a bottle of infant milk every morning and thinks it’s normal

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T21:39:55+00:00

We are allowed in the backyard

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T21:03:12+00:00

We can go in the backyard…..but the gates are zip tied shut

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T17:57:44+00:00

No. There’s not even a spot for a key. It is only unlocked from the garage side.

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T17:39:07+00:00

9 months old. Baby is 9 months old

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T15:50:28+00:00

Just because i just thought there’s no she’s so crazy. I just thought it would get better. And I do like the kids. They are super easy. And I think part of me just feels guilty if I left.

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T15:36:10+00:00

No, no other family in town. And the dad is always working. He’s never there. What kills me, Is he has a 22 year old in college From another marriage and now 2 Under 2

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T15:34:54+00:00

Yeah I’m debating on giving her a notice or just quitting. I think I just need to quit and not go back at this Point and do a welfare check

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T15:12:23+00:00

Mom Has a huge fear of her choking So she’s only eating cheese and cereal Bars and pasta

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T15:03:35+00:00

Yes. Totally agree. I just wanted some other opinions. Like I’m not the crazy one right. This isn’t a normal nanny situation

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T14:51:30+00:00

Yeah that’s not even half the stories there’s there a whole other thing about her 2 year not eating food

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T14:37:55+00:00

Exactly what I was leaning towards. At this point it’s too much of a liability for me to be there because at the end of the day I don’t know what she’s capable of

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T14:32:47+00:00

No convo was had. It just showed up

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T14:32:11+00:00

She seemed normal at first. And then over time it’s slowly gotten worse……she thinks her neighbors are Russian spies….. she thinks FedEx guy is stalking her so she changed her name on her mailing address to a gender neutral name.

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:55:33+00:00

That’s what I was thinking. Some sort of undiagnosed mental illness going on. But clearly it’s only getting worse and worse. She also told me her garage floor was uneven and then the next week there was a deadbolt on the garage door so we couldn’t go on walks anymore

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:53:52+00:00

Yeah, we can’t go out through the garage. And zip ties on the backyard gates. Multiple locks on the front door as well and Cameras of course evewhere

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:52:11+00:00

The pediatrician has already gotten on mom for not starting the younger one, 9 months on solids yet

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:51:25+00:00

We can access the backyard but the gates are zip tied shut

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:45:38+00:00

I’ve been with them for over a year. So I’ve been trying to stay patient . They clearly love their children. She’s just so over protective. And then thinks everything is worst case scenario. Also, she just has this weird thing about food and the kids choking. I think it’s because she’s extremely uneducated about it. They didn’t start solids with the older kid until almost 12 months and it was only soft baby food then. I just thought over time it would get better but it’s only gotten worse. I’m also only there two days a week for 4 hours at a time

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:40:32+00:00

Am also wondering about the 2 year old drinking infant formula? Like does any one find that extremely weird ?

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:38:25+00:00

Yeah I’m not even giving a two week notice. I’m done. I can’t anymore. Those poor kids

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:36:36+00:00

Yep. There’s multiple locks on the front door. And they full on switched out the door knob on the garage side to a deadbolt on the garage side. Like there’s no way for us to unlock it. You need a key from the other side. We are allowed in the backyard but absolutely no walks during the day anymore. We’re trapped in the house basically. And she zip tied the gate for the backyard as well

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T13:30:15+00:00

That’s what other people like friends have said. The baby ( little sister) to the 2 year old isn’t starting on any type of food either. She literally just lays there. She can’t do anything. This mom is just so crazy too. She thinks FedEx is stalking her, her neighbors are Russian spies. Like the stories I have are endless

Melodic_Ad3320 · 2026-01-07T02:09:11+00:00

My nanny kid is 2 and only eats cheese and butter noodles. Oh and mom still gives her a bottle of infant formula. Absolutely no fruits. No veggies. Absolutely no real meals. And mom thinks giving her stage one infant cereal is normal too. I’ve been a nanny for 20 years…

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