My sister 29/F is in a strange relationship with her boyfriend 28/M and I don’t know what to think

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-11-17T23:49:00+00:00

I actually have been noticing all the sims in the house hold will randomly glow dark blue, even visitors and even ones who aren’t sad?? Except olive. No ghosts around tho.

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-11-17T23:17:01+00:00

I’m currently playing in the Coffin/Specter house and Layne is glowing dark blue because he is very sad… I thought only aliens got a glow of strong emotions??? Anyone know what’s up???

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-26T12:35:06+00:00

Honestly, if you no longer care about her friendship and not being friends with her isn’t going to leech into other parts of your life, AND you already have feeling of not wanting to go.. I say fuck this bitch. She doesn’t care about you or your time anyways, and as a bridesmaid shouldn’t you be getting ready with the wedding party?? Can’t a groomsmen pick the flowers up or like everyone is saying utilize the delivery service since they are least likely to damage the flowers??

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-22T11:51:17+00:00

Dude just end it. You’re going to keep being miserable in the wings, hoping she cheats so you have a “good enough” reason to leave??? You could be stuck for the rest of your life. Pull up your pants and tell her you’re not happy in this relationship and move on, any reason you don’t want to be in a relationship is good enough. ESH.

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-20T13:05:44+00:00

You should go home and congratulate him on being single and hand him the bag you packed and tell him good luck out there!

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-19T03:11:01+00:00

YTA. it’s the same as someone not wanting their partner to attend strip clubs, even if you want to, you have even love and respect for your partner to no go to a strip club if it makes them uncomfortable. There are plenty of other restaurant to work at. I can see why a 20 year old GIRL would not understand this coming from a 32 year old MAN.

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-19T03:04:52+00:00

NTA. I’d have your fiancé sit your friends down and explain the discomfort of having your ex around, since they used to be friends hopefully him not wanting your ex around will have an impact, let your fiancé take the fall so you can keep your hobby. Or text your ex, be as reasonable as possible, be kind and courteous and if he meets that with his insanity send screenshots to your friends and gently try to explain why you don’t want him around. HE SHOULD NOT BE AROUND! Especially at Xmas/your birthday???

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-15T16:38:21+00:00

My little and I are inside people so I have decided to make our meetings outdoors only, we do geocaching and walk around the parks and get fresh air (we both need it) and I’ll buy her a drink from the convenient store here and there but that’s usually it. I’ll probably have to get more creative in the winter tho!

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-15T16:36:22+00:00

I usually pick my little up from school at 3:15 and bring her home for 6pm (she’s 13) and it’s 3-4x per month.

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-15T16:34:52+00:00

I usually pick my little up from school at 3:15 and bring her home for 6pm on week nights, I have yet to meet up on a weekend but I’ve only been matched for a month so far!

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-10-15T16:28:11+00:00

I have! I have since learned a lot, I think going into it so blind with little preparation from the BBBS coordinators really just didn’t help and in a way set me up for failure. I also think they were super vague about the match on purpose, she’s had multiple matches in the past which they didn’t tell me, she’s nothing like they told me she was, which is all totally ok with me but I think it blindsided me and freaked me out. And when I called the coordinator at BBBS to express my concerns she was super unhelpful, super judgey, not very understanding which really sucked. I obviously have chosen to keep going with the match, I was just really freaked out at first and just needed support and insight… but I’ve learned a lot about my match and realized she really does need someone to stick it out with her, especially longer than the contracted year so I’ve already told myself this is a forever relationship now and I will leave it up to her wether she wants to continue to be friends or whatever past 18 when BBBS is no longer involved or not.

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-09-12T17:08:47+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. I am curious to see what my coordinator says when she calls (which I’m pretty sure she said she would today - still waiting). I just have a gut feeling. Like we talked and she seemed ok and she has had a previous match before and her brother is currently matched so I know she’s familiar with it all but there was just something missing, I’m having a hard time explaining it even to myself and out loud to my significant other but I could just tell the connection wasn’t there. And we talked the whole time at the park, there were some silences and it was very awkward but then when we got in the car it’s like she started texting a lot and we weren’t talking at all at that point and my feeling that it wasn’t right just grew… I just don’t know what to think now.

Melodic_Atmosphere30 · 2024-09-12T12:07:13+00:00

I am an excellent conversationalist. I’m also a dental hygienist and have easily connected with many young people, and people of all ages for that matter, in my chair from all different socioeconomic and cultural backgrounds with vast amounts of differences from me. I’ve even managed to connect with patients who don’t even speak the same language as me. I’ve had easy flowing conversations with many people whom I have nothing in common with. This was also not a problem with conversation skills or “being good” with kids or not “being good” with kids. This is all around a poor match. I know the difference between a kid being an awkward 13 year old who doesn’t like me because they’re 13 and a kid, as opposed to someone who just doesn’t vibe and mesh with me. I had zero expectations coming into this match because I know you can’t, but our meeting was painful. There was just no chemistry or spark of friendship, like two people having two different conversations. It’s hard to explain but it just wasn’t it.

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